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How To Find A Partner Fast

It is much easier than you think. I always wondered why are some people going from relationship to relationship. There are always guys/girls that are coming in their lives, and often times I”ve been alone. No serious relationship, just a guy here or there. Until a day, when I was talking with friend of mine and my sister about that mystery of mine. I told them how am I really worried about when am I going to find a guy.

So we was talking about relationships and how to be happy in it. Soon after we realized how am I having some blocks, not letting anyone in my life. I wasn”t confident at that time and I realized that I didn”t like myself either. Do I need to tell you that I am looking better than ever now. I am affirming myself how I am worthy and beautiful. How it is easy to find a partner, and how everyone wants to love, and to be loved. I was working on my mindset. I was riding a bike, grocery shop, cooking and affirming yourself how I am worthy and deserving to have somebody in my life. Words that you are telling yourself matters. More than you think.

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Soon after that conversation I created a meetup, posted it online, and this guy responded with yes, the rest is history. We met for a drink soon after the meetup one day, and continuing to seeing each other.

Let go of the time and place you are going to met your future partner. What is most important is that you get ready for it. You need to be ready for his or her arrival. You need to open yourself up. You need to feel and be happy and open. You need to look good, love yourself for who you are, and loving life. When I say you need to look good, is that you need to dress up to feel good. Clothes that are pleasing to your body, and choose the one that you feel good and confident in.

Really, what are you saying  to yourself on a daily basis, moment by moment? And do you really love and accept yourself for who you truly are? Answer this questions now! Do you? You need to love you first. Nobody is going to believe in you if you don”t believe in you first. What are the chances that you don”t appreciate yourself and so, you are expecting from somebody else to accept you. You need to be your own everything first.

I”ll never forget when a friend of mine told me about his criminals that he was doing and admitting to him and myself how he didn”t love and accept himself. Luckily, he is out of the criminal, because now he knows who he is and understands life. People that are committing crimes are the ones who don”t know who they and other people are. That may sound ridiculous to you, and you may wonder what that has to do with attracting your partner, but it is closely related. In order to find a partner for a lifetime, you need to be first your own best partner first.

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Put yourself out there. Plan to have a nice and good conversation with everyone. Enjoy yourself and potential partner will show up, unexpectedly, when you least expect. Then, it will be naturally for you, things will just flow. You are not going to turn around, and you will find yourself already in relationship. These are exciting times.

Get ready for his or her arrival. As I already said. I was preparing myself mentally for his arrival. I was repeating affirmations such as: “I am opening myself to the new relationship.” Get ready, dress up, shave your legs. 😀 Seriously! You are going to the world not making yourself ready. Cut your hair, do something, get yourself ready. You will feel better automatically.

People seek partnership, people seek somebody to share their life with, to be heard, they wanna share their victories and failures. Be in a good partnership with yourself first. You need to be listening you first and meeting your needs first. Don”t ever seek for somebody outside to meet your needs. People, guys and girls love somebody who is whole and complete. It is sexy when you are confident. People love to hang around with somebody who is confident, independent and fun. Be first all these things and potential partner will stick to you like a glue.

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Be happy. Everyone wants to be around happy people. Happiness is magnetic. It is contagious. It is very easy going to be with someone who is positive, optimistic and sees everything from the bright side.

Know yourself first. I often found that if you wanna love and appreciate others you need to know and respect yourself first. Know who you truly are. Know all your weaknesses and strengths. Know what do you like in a partner. Who he or she needs to be. Know what you could tolerate and the things that you cannot, things that you don”t want in your life under any circumstances.

You need to know you are deserving and you are able to have and keep life partner. To work on attracting your partner makes no sense if you are first not believing you deserve and you can have someone in your life. Everybody deserves that special someone in their life, and so do you.

You will find a partner when you seek a partnership, when you seek for a best friend, when you seek to give other love, attention and understanding. People don”t wanna one who is too attached to them, that feels like being in jail. But in order to achieve that, you need to be in alignment with you. You don”t want somebody who is in neediness all the time, its frustrating.

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While you walk around, interact with people, raise your head, give them a smile, truly and honestly, give a smile to the one, anyone, who seems interesting to you. It is practice. Practice to allow anybody to come into your life.

This is not a rocket science, just open yourself up, get ready, and work on your confidence.

I really hope I helped you. I want to hear from you now, what you really liked in this post, and what are the steps that you need to do first in order you attract a partner you will really like?

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All the best!

Maja!

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The monk who sold his Ferrari by Robin Sharma

This book is such a gem

 

This book is a huge gem (diamond). I am really fascinated. It”s about the secrets of life and how to keep that balance between personal and professional life. I will surely come to read this book again and again, to buy my own copy, and make sure to underscore the parts that I resonated with, so I can reread it again and remind myself of these secrets and truths again and again when needed. It is really inspiring.

Do you believe success is your destiny? Are you hunger for more: more prestige, more glory and more money? You will never wish you spent more time at the office attaining success and money. You will wish on your deathbed to spent more time with your family and friends in a joyful moment together. I”ve also come to see that success on the outside means nothing unless you also have success within. There is a huge difference between well-being and being well-off.

“Every event has a purpose and every setback its lesson. I have realized that failure, whether of the personal, professional or even spiritual kind, is essential to personal expansion. It brings inner growth and a whole host of psychic rewards. Never regret your past. Rather, embrace it as the teacher that it is. I have learned that self-mastery and the consistent care of one”s mind, body and soul are essential to finding one”s highest self and living the life of one”s dreams. How can you care for others if you cannot even care for yourself? How can you do good if you don’t even feel good? I can’t love you if I cannot love myself.

 

Appreciate yourself

 

Take the first step to shifting your paradigm with these awesome life lessons from The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari. 

 

1. Cultivate Your Mind

The Quality Of Your Life Is Determined By The Quality Of Your Thoughts

2. The Purpose Of Life Is A Life Of Purpose

The Power Of Self-Examination

3. Do The Things You Fear The Most

Self-Mastery Is The DNA Of Life Mastery

4. Live With Discipline

Do The Vow Of Silence

5. Respect Your Time

Have A “Deathbed” Mentality

6. Practice Daily Acts Of Kindness

By Elevating The Lives Of Others, Your Life Reaches Its Highest Dimensions

7. Never Sacrifice Happiness For Achievement

Live In The Now With Your Children’s Childhood

 

The time is now

 

Investing in yourself is the best investment you will ever make. It will not only improve your life, it will improve the lives of all those around you. It is only when you have mastered the art of loving yourself that you can truly love others. It”s only when you have opened your own heart that you can touch the hearts of others. When you feel centered and alive, you are in a much better position to be a better person.

 

A Most Extraordinary Garden

 

Most people live – whether physically, intellectually or morally – in a very restricted circle of their potential being. We all have reservoirs of life to draw upon of which we do not dream.

                                                                                            William James

 

In a fable, the garden is a symbol for the mind. If you care for your mind, if you nurture it and if you cultivate it just like a fertile, rich garden, it will blossom far beyond your expectations. But if you let the weeds take root, lasting peace of mind and deep inner harmony will always elude you. Yet look at the toxic waste that most people put into the fertile garden of their minds every single day: the worries and anxieties, the fretting about the past, the brooding over the future and those self-created fears that wreak havoc within your inner world.

To live life to the fullest, you must stand guard at the gate of your garden and let only the very best information enter. You truly cannot afford the luxury of a negative thought – not even one. The most joyful, dynamic and contented people of this world are no different from you or me in terms of their makeup. We are all flesh and bones. We all come from the same universal source. However, the ones who do more than just exist, the ones who fan the flames of their human potential and truly savor the magical dance of life do different things than those whose lives are ordinary. Foremost among the things that they do is adopt a positive paradigm about their world and all that in it.

There is no such thing as objective reality or “the real world”. There are no absolutes. The face of your greatest enemy might be the face of my finest friend. An event that appears to be a tragedy to one might reveal the seeds of unlimited opportunity to another. What really separates people who are habitually upbeat and optimistic from those who are consistently miserable is how the circumstances of life are interpreted and processed.

 

All is well in your world

 

All success in life, whether material or spiritual, starts with that twelve – pound mass sitting between your shoulders. Or more specifically, with the thoughts that you put into your mind every second of every minute of every day. Your outer world reflects the state of your inner world. By controlling the thoughts that you think and the way you respond to the events of your life, you begin to control your destiny.

There are no mistakes in life, only lessons. There is no such thing as negative experience, only opportunities to grow, learn and advance along the road of self – mastery. From struggle comes strength. Even pain can be a wonderful teacher. To savor the good one you must know the bad!

I suggest that you stop judging events as either positive or negative. Rather, simply experience them, celebrate them and learn from them. Every event offers you lessons. These little lessons fuel your inner and outer growth. Without them, you would be stuck on a plateau. Just think about it in your own life. Most people have grown the most from their most challenging experiences. And if you meet with an outcome you did nor expect and feel a little disappointed, remember that the laws of nature always ensure that when one door closes another opens.

 

Door to paradise

 

I hope you will enjoy reading this content as much as I enjoyed reading this book. That is just a few or words of wisdom, there are much much more to learn. I promise you, you will never regret reading this book, if you are open for these teachings of course. When the student is ready, the teacher will appear!

Please, leave me a comment in a section below if you read this far, I would appreciate that. And please, feel free to like and share in you find it valuable.

 

I gave my best!

Maja!

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Thoughts are things?!

 

Is it really that way? Do we truly attract what we think about and who we are? I know that like attracts like, but do really thoughts and what we think about shapes our reality?

About the how like attracts like… I’ll never forget that day…I’ve been in one relationship that I didn’t enjoy at all. You might think now: “Why you stayed then?!” I don’t know! I guess I’ve seen just the goods in him, and all the bads I tried to forget, not to focus on. Until one day, I had that aha moment, when I realized that we was perfect match. I didn’t love and appreciate myself, and then he came into my life like a perfect manipulator.

 

Thoughts are not facts!

 

Of course I left him straight after the realization, but the question is still here: “Do we really attract who we are and what we think about?”

Please, please, please! If you read this far, let me know what are your thoughts about this in a comment section bellow. ⬇️ Would love to know!

 

I wish you a great day!

Yours sincerely,

Maja