Attitude

How to avoid problems in life

If you want to avoid problems in life, you are going to fail. Problems are here for us to grow, to push us, to expand, to learn new things. You are never going to stop having problems/challenges in life. The sooner you make a peace with that, the sooner you are going to feel better.

Problems are nothing but opportunities. Why we even call problems problems? The word problem has very heavy connotation, it weights a ton. Call your problems challenges instead, and watch how you are going to feel after that. But not just any challenge. A challenge that you are looking forward to solve, find a solution for it.

“Neglect your problems and they will flourish, face them and they will disappear.”   – Maja Marinic

To avoid problems and challenges in life, I think, is by building yourself up, working on your mental health. Because hey, if you are strong in your head, you know your self, you trust yourself, you have a faith that everything is going to be ok, that you will find a way to make it work, then everything is going to be just fine. Believe in it, trust the process.

Everything is figureoutable

Why don”t we see our challenges like a solving jig saw puzzles?

We want to play, and it is interesting to search for a matching piece, we enjoy playing game. We like the whole picture of it. It is beautiful scenery, or something that is dear to our hearts. We will take as much time as we need to make the picture whole, we will even schedule a time to work on this. And funny enough, we even call our friends and family to help us, and every time we have amazing time together, it is so much fun.

So the question is: “Why we don”t look at our problems like solving jig-saw puzzles? Trying different pieces, turning around, coming to it later once when we get tired. Really, can we see our problems as a puzzle solving machines? What do you think about that?

Problems reminds us that we are doing something wrong.

Maybe that is part of the truth. Because hey, if you planned that trip in the detail, the problem would not occur at all.

Many people go through life unprepared, with head on, all in. But you need to prepare yourself prior you go after something, you need to know what to expect, what to bring, and what it requires from you.

Get yourself ready to be ready, is something that Esther and Jerry Hicks promotes, and I love it so much. Why? Because all is about preparation. Oprah Winfrey also, for reason say that: “Luck is when preparation meets opportunity.”

So to avoid problems in life, plan your future and the details in it before time, don”t let things happen by default, create them.

There are the countless of books about how to solve the problems in life. One of my favorite is: What is your problem?

“The author makes a compelling case that we often start solving a problem before thinking deeply about whether we are solving the right problem. If you want the superpower of solving better problems, read this book.” — Eric Schmidt, former CEO, Google

Curb your ego

I highly recommend you to watch my video about “How to solve our personal problems.” It is all about solving those problems, having fun with it (try at least). To feel better about that, you can say something like: “Look what problem do I have’!” (in a fun way) and start solving it.

Everything that we facing in life, and are going to face requires some work from us, sometimes less, sometime more. Don”t be afraid to put the time in something, in order to make it work. Why would you be afraid anyway, right? I know, we all want to sit on that beach, sip cocktails under the palm tree, and do nothing, but life is not created this way. Life is work, constant doing something, working towards something. What it is that you want to work towards to???

Tony Robbins say: “Progress equals happiness.” And I truly believe that is true. Because I often find myself happy going after something, working towards it.

  • Think on paper
  • What is the problem?
  • Offer solutions
  • What can YOU do?
  • Can you find a book written on that?
  • Who could you ask for help?

Think on paper. Whatever challenges you are facing now, just put them on a piece of paper. Our minds are really messy places, and the more we think, the more it seems we are going to go crazy.

Once on a paper, our process to solve that begins. Now, all that you can do, is offer solutions. What you can do? Is there somebody you can ask for help? And many more…

“We cannot solve our problems with the same thinking we used when we created them.” Albert Einstein Source

Don”t try to pretend that nothing is going wrong, pretending that everything is fine, when it is not. The sooner you face something or someone, the sooner you are going to feel better about it, and it will disappear, it will stop bothering you.

An amazing PDF about how to solve our problems find HERE.

Actually open this file and start solving your problems in life.

We all have unwanted situations in life and are going to have. Some of them are going to be big, some small. The question is, what is your perception on that?

Problems are opportunities.

Conclusion:

The only way to avoid problems in life is to get yourself ready for them. You are never going to stop having problems/unwanted situations, that is the truth. Problems are our guidelines. It tell us what direction to go, which route to take.

What are your opinions on this? How are you solving your problems? Are you feeling they weight a ton, or you are looking forward to it? Do you like the idea of solving something?

I really really really hope this Blog Post is going to be of help to you, that you are going to see the problems as a opportunities and new paths.

Yours sincerely,

Maja

 

Attitude

Why we face problems in life

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Problems are nothing but opportunities, and nothing but wake-up calls for creativity.

You would be dead bored if you don”t have a challenges in life, exactly that, challenges, not problems. Stop even using the word problem. Why? Because the word problem sounds so harsh, and it weights a ton. Feels super heavy.

Face your problems and they will disappear, neglect them, and they will flourish. -Maja Marinic

We talk about problems like that is something huge. We think of our problems, like we are the only one facing them. There are the people that are literally dying outside, no food, no shelter, and we are complaining how life is hard on us?! Shame on us! Why are we blind and not appreciative for what we already have?

We should be appreciative and grateful for what we already have.

Challenges are here to teach us something, to do more, to think, to brainstorm, go places, call others, ask for advice, ask for help. Challenges are here for the reason. We don”t know what exact ones, and I think we are never going to find out. The only thing we can do, when we face challenges, is to say: “Bring it on!” “I can handle it!”

Why we face problems in life #problems #situations #challenges

Challenges and problems are important parts of life that give you experiences, make you learn and help you to become wiser and stronger. Problems make us grow and shape us. The biggest problem people have is that they hope for a life without problems. … Regardless of the result, value the experience and personal growth. Source

Problems are here to make you make different choices in life. Choices through which you are going to grow and expand in life, and therefore, make good impact on other peoples lives. That is exactly why challenges exist.

Again, these are not problems, only challenges, that you think are negative. But that is so far from the truth. Who is saying that this is negative? It is just unwanted to you, it pushes you to make different choices.

Scientifically speaking, positive doesn”t mean good and negative doesn”t mean bad. They are just terms for the balance of energy flow. Dr. Mel Gill (From the book The Meta Secret)

There is a a a mazing book called “Everything is figureoutable” by amazing woman called Marie Forleo. She knows also, that problems doesn”t exist, only challenges, and that everything is figureoutable.

Also, have you heard about the quote that Eckhart Tolle said: “Problems are illusions of the mind”: So true! I think. What do you think?

Life will only give you “problems” that you can handle to.

Think about how many obstacles you have missed? Plenty of them!

How many times you could have accidents? How many times you could got pregnant with that wrong guy?

You see now? How life, God, or Universe, loves you? You are so loved! Your challenges are “Piece of cake” to you, and you know that.

How to solve our human problems #problems #challenges #situations

The problem with us humans.

We like to talk about problems, with all the people that we come in contact with. Trying to find a reason “Why us?” “What wrong we did to the world?”Talking about our problems in life, and how the world is falling apart is not going to bring us any good in life. We like to play victim role, say that we are not responsible for what is going on around us. But is this really truth?

Solution.

Bring solution. Actually enjoy in the process of finding solution. LOOK AT THAT CHALLENGE AS A PROJECT THAT YOU ARE WORKING ON! Research about the ways how to find solutions. Reach out to people, and ask them how they had solved the problem.

Think in pictures. Actually see yourself how you solving that problem, and what have you done. See yourself finding a solution. See yourself thriving!

Yes, there is a thing called see in pictures.

It is a thing that I thought I invented it, but when I started to research about it, and what it can bring me, I found out, that there is a whole study about it, and most importantly, it works, it actually helps you take your life to the next level.

We usually think, that we are the only ones with that particular problem in life. And that is so far from the truth. We all go through the same, and we all want the same.

Actually write a list of your unwanted situations, “problems” in life. Make a list of the things that you would like to change, and then offer solution, for every and each one of them. Research, ask, find a mentor, talk about solution, ask for help, ask for advice (but only relevant people)…

Life Is Like a Jigsaw Puzzle is a post that can be of great help to you. Think about life in jig saw puzzles. You don”t know how the heck are you going to solve that picture of the 1000 (thousand) pieces, but you are determent to, because you will like the picture to look at at the end, at the matter of fact, you even liked the picture the moment you saw it, and so you purchased it, and decided to work on it. So work on that “project” solving thing!

Here is my video also that I filmed with so much love for you, about problem solving. I really hope you will like it.

Learn to know what are the obstacles and how to solve them, should be one of your first priorities in life, because you are going to need that skill after some time, and apply it, to some aspect, or the situation that you are going to have.

Your turn.

What are some problems, challenges or situations that you are going through right now? If you want the support, just book a call with me, and I will help you get through it here. That”s right, through it! You need to go through the things to experience them. You want to learn stuff, make the most out of your life, you need to go through stuff.

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