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How to change attitude

Being aware of the attitude that you have towards something is everything. People don’t realize their broken or bad attitudes towards something that is not serving them. How do you know if your attitude towards something is good or bad? Simply, your results show. If your money results are good, and you feel happy about it, then your attitude towards money is good, and you should be keeping that attitude.

What is your attitude towards money, relationships, life, work, other people, life, animals, universe, God, etc.? It is important to have an attitude that will work for you, in your favor.

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Research! Research about the things that you wanna improve upon. That is how you change your point of view. That is how you broaden your perspective. Isn”t that amazing? Like you can change your attitude in a matter of a day. How? Again, by researching it. There is so many information out there, people that already done what you need improve upon. Just find someone who already did it, ask them how, copy them, and you should witness miracles in your life. Don”t believe me? Test it!

“An attitude of positive expectation is the mark of the superior personality.” – Brian Tracy.

Attitude is just a settled way of thinking or feeling about something, says google. Google terms like this, research about it! Here is the key word, SETTLED! It is a settled way of thinking or feeling, but that necessarily mean it has to forever stay that way, you can change it, only if you truly want to. How bad do you want it? 

It is a settled way of thinking. How you settle by this way of thinking, that is exactly how you can develop another settled way of thinking, but you need to know how, what and why. You need to develop another and think another set of thoughts. Choose the one that does serve you. Choose the one that sparks joy in you. Choose the one that makes you feel good about you, your life, your everything. This is how you change your attitude. By changing your self first. Your thoughts and your actions.

Tips for Changing Your Attitude to Make Your Relationship Better
  1. Make up your mind! You must decide that you not only want to change your attitude but you WILL change it. …
  2. Let the past hurts go! …
  3. Stop giving yourself permission to be negative. …
  4. Change your thoughts! …
  5. Have a grateful heart. …
  6. Change what you can.

Positive Attitudes List

   
AffectionateFreedomResponsive
AcceptanceFriendlyResponsible
AspiringFocusedSelf-confident
AmbitiousFrugalSelf-directed
MotivatedGenerousSelf-disciplined
CandidGoodwillSelf-esteem
CaringGratefulSelf-giving
ChangeHard workingSelf-reliant
EmbracesHonestSelfless
CheerfulHumbleSensitive
ConsiderateInterestedSerious
ThoughtfulInvolvedSincere
CooperativeNot jealousSocial independence
CourageousKindSympathetic
GloomyMatureAccepts others points of view
DecisiveOpen mindedThoughtful towards others
DevotedTolerantTrusting
DeterminedOptimisticUnpretentiousness
PerseverancePositiveUnselfish
EndurancePracticalWillingness
EnthusiasticPunctualWork-oriented
ExpansiveRealistic 
FaithReliable 
FlexibleDistant 
ForgivingResponsibility

This is amazing article from the Bustle.com website. I truly relate with all the points about how to change your attitude. Please, open up this article and start learning how to change your bad attitudes.

“The greatest discovery of all time is that a person can change his future by merely changing his attitude.” – Oprah Winfrey.

Ask yourself questions every day; What is good in my life? and What has to be done? Where I need to improve upon? This is exactly how you develop your awareness. Asking yourself questions like these every single day.

Attitude is everything. It governs the way you perceive the world and the way the world perceives you. … Your inner dialogue is the software that programs your attitude, which determines how you present yourself to the world around you.

Attitude is the way you think.

Your attitude is something other people can actually see

They can hear it in your voice,

See it in the way you move,

Feel it when they are with you.

Your attitude expresses itself in everything you do,

All the time, wherever you are.

Positive attitudes always invite positive results.

Negative attitudes always invite negative results.

Attitude makes a difference every hour, everyday,

In everything you do for your entire life.

What you get out of everything you do,

Will equal the attitude you have when you do it.

If you have a positive attitude, you are looking for ways

To solve the problems you solve,

And are letting go of the things

Over which you have no control.

You can develop a positive attitude by emphasizing the good,

By being tough-minded, and by refusing defeat.

– Author Unknown

Source: https://ucfknight46.wordpress.com/2011/11/15/attitude-is-everything/

The Importance of Having the Right Attitude in Life. Our attitude is what influences all our actions. It is only the right attitude, which gets us good results. All the smiles and hand-shakes are not going to get you far, if you do not have the attitude to help others, without any selfish expectations in return.

8 Ways to Improve Your Attitude
  1. Always act with a purpose. …
  2. Stretch yourself past your limits every day. …
  3. Take action without expecting results. …
  4. Use setbacks to improve your skills. …
  5. Seek out those who share your positive attitude. …
  6. Don’t take yourself so seriously. …
  7. Forgive the limitations of others. …
  8. Say “thank you” more frequently

What is your attitude towards the bosses, managers? Can you handle authority? Me no! No more! That is exactly why I started this. I wanted to create something on my own, and be my own boss.

It is not that I hate them, I just think life is too short to listen peoples orders, their wants, and what they would like from us to do. if you decide to stay and grow in your company, you better develop your new fresh and positive attitude, because if you do you might be promoted. Nobody wants to have a negative and bitter coworker.

Make up your mind today and start to develop fresh new attitude of what is going on in your life, your circumstances, and your life will start to flourish.

I found an amazing video with Joel Osteen. He is just a great speaker, and until now I watched it 10 times. Please open this video and start learning more about the attitude that you need to develop. Watch it here: 

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How To Get a Clarity Of Thought

How clear you are about what you want? How precise you are how that should look like? Do you have a clarity of thought? How important it is to have a clarity of thought?

Let”s say you are very unsure about something. Does that bothers you? Of course it does! Being unsure about something, and constantly thinking about it, drains our energy. We need to make a decisions. Decide! Just decide! Only by making decisions will move us forward, nothing else. By not making decisions is also making decision, but the difference is, just by making one will move you forward.

I, myself, made a video about the clarity, I really hope it will help you make a decisions. I hope you will like it and find a value out of it.

 

There is a catch. You should not be focused on the past and what has happened and who you were in the past. The trick is, constantly remind yourself on what is important for you, who you wanna become, what do you wanna achieve and where you wanna be. It is very simple, right? Only the ones that achieved something are being fully focused on what they are building. It takes practice and repetition. Never give up. Your future self will thank you for.

Every time you think of what it is and what has been, your dreams and goals are moving out from you. That is because you live in the past. Learn from the past and move forward. It is that simple.

I love love love the part in a book called “Man”s Search For Meaning” than I read today. If you wanna understand why you are now here, just connect the dots looking in your past. And to create your dream future, you need to be clear of what you want and have a clarity of thought of what do you wanna achieve.

 

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This part in the book goes like this:

Consider a movie: consists of thousands upon thousands of individual pictures, and each of them makes sense and carries a meaning, yet the meaning of the whole film cannot be seen before its last sequence is shown. However, we cannot understand the whole film without having first understood each of its components, each of the individual pictures. Isn”t it the same with life? Doesn”t the final meaning of life, too, reveal itself, if at all, only at its end, on the verge of death? And doesn”t this final meaning, too, depend of whether or not the potential meaning of each single situation has been actualized to the best of the respective individuals knowledge and belief?

I really hope you understand the chapter about the connecting the dots looking backward.

“You can’t connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something – your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. Because believing that the dots will connect down the road will give you the confidence to follow your heart even when it leads you off the well worn path; and that will make all the difference.”   -Steve Jobs

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I really hope I inspired you of the importance of clarity of thought and how to have a clarity of thought. I put all my heart and soul into it.

Please, feel free to comment below about clarity in our lives and how important or not is. Please, share with your friends, and subscribe for more amazing contents in the future.

Love you all, Maja!

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Losing my mind

Losing my mind helped me so much. I”ve been so caught up in my mind. I was thinking destructive thoughts, but now I loosed my mind, and I feel much much better.

Our minds are so powerful. You are not even realizing it, but you think thousands of thoughts all day long. Some of the thoughts you can hear, you are aware of them, while on other you cannot even pay attention, because they are very quiet, and I think that these are beliefs that are very old, thoughts that you was thinking for a long time, and it is challenging to realize them and try to destroy, to re frame them.

Look at the world a little bit. Everybody is looking down, scrolling their phones, thinking who knows what. They let all the media influence them. They don”t know anymore how to raise their head and look at the sky. They don”t know how their neighborhood looks like anymore. They are in their head most of the time. We need to learn loose our minds and head, and get into the heart. We need to think with the heart.

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For me, everything became better when I decided to loose my mind. You need to open yourself up to a new and crazy things, you need to take a risks, you need to know that you have a limited time on this planet earth and live to it”s fullest.

I”ve been doing a research about loosing mind and it is not in a positive way. I don”t know what are they thinking about that, but here I am talking about the thoughts that we ran over and over again in our heads. We need to think broadly. We need to be aware that we are much much more than we think we are. I personally talk with myself and it feels wonderful. You need to go out of your head and ask yourself is it really truth, the thoughts that you think of.

To lose your mind doesn”t necessarily mean a bad thing. It is realizing of thinking destructive thoughts and beliefs about yourself and re framing them. Lose your mind and get into the heart. You need to think with your heart. What are your hearts desires. Lose your mind and don”t believe everything that you heard of, either from yourself or from others. Know what is your truth, and never stop questioning everything.

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Everybody seems normal. They behave normal, they are living “normal” life but where will that get them? They are afraid to do something new, to stretch themselves, to take a risks. How do these people live? Are they really happy? Do they live their highest potential? I don”t think so!

If you wanna live extraordinary life, you need to lose your mind and get into the heart. Heart knows all your hearts desires, listen to heart, lose your mind and get into the heart once and for all.

I hope I inspired you, for real. I think, to lose your mind and go crazy a little bit, is not a bad thing. Majority of the people are normal, and look how they live their life.

Please, like this article, it will help me tremendously. It will help me create even more contents. It will motivate me first to do the more research, to learn, to implement, and then to teach others. Please, also subscribe for more in the future. I think internet is exploding every single day more and more, and people easily can be influenced by others. Lets spread this encouraging contents a little bit more and help people globally.

Yours sincerely,

Maja!

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How To Raise Your Vibration

Don”t you wanna live your life to the fullest? Everyone would love to feel happy, fulfilled and joyful all the time. It is possible, for the majority of time, but it takes practice, lots of refocusing on the things that you want, feeling good about your current situations, taking actions regularly and believing in yourself. How to raise your vibration never been easier.

The key word here is feel. Feelings are so powerful. Cherish the ones that you feel the best with. Go and make the shortcut, find the reason why should you be grateful NOW.

I have a list of things on a piece of paper that I go through whenever I feel negative emotions. The list of things you can do too are: laying on your bed and listening favorite music, spend time in nature, read a book about your favorite topic, playing with your pet, meditate, watch comedies… Make your own list. Everybody”s list are different, you make your own unique.

There is so much more, like a movements, like drinking plenty of water and gratitude. Also, let”s say you “hate” your job, and you are trying to build your own business, just to end that slavery and become time free and financially free. Everyday you are running thoughts in your head like a: “When will all stop?”, “Why am I here trapped even though I know I can do it much better?”, “Why me?”, “I feel so tired, this job sucks energy out of me!”, “Why I need to go through all of this?”, “Not one more day there!” You get the point?!

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That would not put you in a state of gratitude, excitement and joy, right? So, re frame it! You can say something like this: “Soon I will quit that job.” “I am working on it.” I am building my on line businesses, and eventually I will quit that job.” “Nothing lasts forever, so this will end up as well.” Do you understand now the power of re framing words? Words that you speak to yourself and out loud are also powerful. Everything is, all that you emanating out comes back to you.

There is actually a thousands ways how to vibrate high, how to feel good. There are thousands of books, courses, teachings, one of them is this one HERE. There is a small test that will show you where are you on the list when it comes to manifesting either your soul mate, dream job, lottery, or anything else. This audio book is life changing. The changes will not occur if you don”t open yourself up to a new things, new teachings. Open yourself up, think outside of the box, and watch what will happen. Just open yourself up, really listen what they have to say, and work on it, take some action, NOW. Tomorrow might be to late. Don”t forget that you are creators, not observers.

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I am assuming that you already work on your belief system, otherwise you would not end up reading this article, being on this Blog. How to raise your vibration?!?! Simply!!! Just do, speak, think, visualize, eat, drink, smell, wear, go, have, read, watch that you feel good about. It is that easy. Train your mind to look for good in everything. Set that phone on a side, stop scrolling, stop watching others peoples lives, and really focus on the things that you want.

Don”t forget to ask yourself all throughout the day: “How do I really feel?” We often times ask other people how do they feel, but what about us. More about this topic I wrote in this post if you wanna read further: Two Questions You Need To Ask Yourself Daily Please, do that for yourself, and for your family, friends, society and the world. Your mission is to grow on this planet, never stop questioning everything, read, learn and don”t forget to apply. THIS audio book is one of them. I believe in it!

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Treat Your Life As A Business Not A Hobby

In another words, treat everything in your life as a business, not a hobby, be as best as you can.

I”ve been through some free course now, about the making money online, and guy said that people are not succeeding because they are treating their businesses as a hobby, not a business.

I can relate to that, because I didn”t treat myself as well good enough. I didn”t treat my online business as seriously as I could. You know the saying: “What you put out comes back to you!” It is true! If you are not appreciating enough job that you do, business that you build, they are not going to appreciate you either.

Everything is in accordance of how much we give out. You need to put a things, money and effort in a state of flow. If you giving just half of what you really can, you are going to get half back, maybe even less. So treat yourself as a business, your business as a business, not a hobby, and your life will be a safe haven.

I like the quote very much that Jay Z once said: ” I’m not a ‘Business-Man’! I’m a Business… man! 

Do you like it too? We treat our possessions for granted, we treat ourselves for granted, our bodies, our parents, siblings, everything and everybody, and that”s what we get out as well.

Know, that all is within you, and that you can take your life, yourself and your business to the next level, but only if you will go full into it, immerse yourself into everything that you do, giving best of yourself, living the life of no regrets.

I am pumped up. I really am. I will never stop learning.

What are your thought about this? Taking full responsibility and taking everything seriously, but enjoying and believing in journey?

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Love you all!

Maja!