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How to decide what you want to do

Deciding what you want to do is huge! But only decision that you are harmonized with is a good decision made. Deciding you are going to do something, and then thinking that you should not do that, is a wrong decision. You must stick to your decisions and make the final ones. Now you might be thinking, how to make a right decision? It is very simple, but not easy. It takes time! How much of the time you have? You should have all the time in the world to make those decisions and work on them, because hey, your future self will thank you for. Find that time to figure that out.

It is about researching, asking yourself deep questions, trying new stuff, and sticking to the final decisions.

I”ve been offered to join some Multi-level marketing company. And we”ve been through 4 interview steps now. The first two steps I thought to myself: “I can do that!” But as time was passing by, and I was researching more about that company, and the business model itself, I asked myself deep questions, and I realized that this is not what I truly want. I want to be a leader, not a follower. I want to build something on my own, from scratch.

A life path

TRY DIFFERENT THINGS

I lost so much money, because I needed to try something new. And I needed to find my place under the sun. The only way to find a place where you belong, is to look for that place, go places that you never before explored. Immerse yourself in the new and unknown. Life begins outside of your comfort zone. Invest in courses, invest in yourself, actually pay for that.

VISUALIZE

Visualize where you really want to be, what to do, and what to have. If you can be anything you want, what would that be? What would you try to pursue if you cannot fail? These are the questions that you need to ask yourself on a daily basis. What do I really, really want, and how do I go and get it? Again, your future self will thank you for.

RESEARCH

Research like your life depends on it. We are living in such amazing times, when everything is served for us on a silver plate with one click of the button. Things are now easier than ever, the only problem is that we get distracted easily. There is so much going on in the world right now. And these are the best times to look within yourself more than ever, find yourself again, and decide what you want to do really.

ASK YOURSELF DEEP QUESTIONS

Do I wanna be a leader or a follower? Am I hiring people? How many of them? What is my dream profession? Who do I work for? Am I working from home or do I commute to work? Who is my partner? How many kids do I have? Where do we go for vacation? How often do I visit my family? How do we spend our quality times together? You get the point.

Here is my Youtube video that I made on the same topic. As I already said, it takes some time to finally decide about what do you really want, but we need to work for that, we need to put the time and effort in it. Watch the video here:

AS IDEAS COME UP TO YOUR MIND WHILE THINKING WHAT YOU WANT, WRITE THEM DOWN TO YOUR TO-DO LIST

To decide that you need to decide what you want to do with your life, is also a decision, and you are well on your way to make that happen. As you start to think what you really want to do, ideas will pop-up in you mind. The first thing that you should do is write them down. Have always a notebook and a pen in a room that you spend most of your time, or your home office, and write them down. Once you get the chance, you need to follow through, you need to work on that ideas, otherwise, nothing is going to happen, and ideas will go to waste.

WHAT ARE THE THINGS YOU ARE MOST PASSIONATE ABOUT

Do you ever felt like time stopped while you were working on something, you forgot to eat, or you loosed the sense of reality? This is what happens when you are fully into the things that you are most passionate about.

Maybe it is writing for you, selling things online, gardening or a teaching? Whatever it is, it is yours. If you truly love that, you definitely should do more of that.

Just do it

WHAT DO YOU NOT LIKE TO DO

For example, I don”t like to work for somebody else, 9 to 5. That is truly boring for me, unfulfilling, and I feel like I am wasting my precious time. It feels like dying, not growing. What would be opposite of that? It is working for somebody else? It would be an entrepreneurship. I”ve always wanted to be an entrepreneur, but only now is the truly time to pursue that entrepreneurship.

HOW HARD ARE YOU WILLING TO WORK TO GET WHAT YOU WANT?

People are often times dabblers, they are not fully engaged in what they do, and so, they never get things done. They are indecisive, they cannot commit, and they basically live like the dogs (no offense). Whatever do they find on the floor, they would eat, and they can chase the ball for an hours.

You and me should find out what we want and then go for that fully. Fully immerse ourselves in what we do and make the most out of ourselves and our lives.

I really hope this helps you realize what you really want to do for the rest of your life. It can be very scary, I know, but take full ownership of your life, and actually do the things that will take your life to the next level.

If you need any help with that, you can contact me HERE and book with me free consultation on your career or any goals that you have, like the one how to find your passion.

I wish you very best of luck!

See you in another one.

Maja

Self - help

How To Be Happy Everyday

It is very easy to be happy everyday. You don”t believe me? Continue to read. Many people think that life is very hard. They talk about it, and so they act according to their believes. But what if I say to you, that whatever is happening right now, or whatever will happen to you, you can look at this on a bright side of it.

You might be single now, but very sad, because you wanna share your emotions and spend some time with the partner, but what if I tell you that your true love you want is still not ready to come to you, enter your life. In this case, you will want to wait for him or her. Right? You wanna wait for that special someone. You know you deserve it. And so, you will do whatever it takes to enjoy your time before his or her arrival.

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Everything in life is how we look at things. Change the way you look at things, and the things you look at will change. This is what once Dr.Wayne Dyer said, and I truly believe in it.

You need to look after yourself if you truly wanna be happy in every aspect. Big role here plays your mindset, I covered it above, you need to look differently at the things. But there is more, your physical health, and what you consume every day. Remember that all is connected and that you need to make a balance in your life in order to everything work properly. Work on every aspect of your life and happiness is guaranteed in your life.

Also, how bad do you want it? If you don”t want it bad enough, check maybe you have some excuses. Are you excusing yourself or do you like to complain often? I will tell you the ugly truth now. If you complain about something, you are the prisoner of that something. Do some research, your future self will thank you for, and have a look how others did that shift, how others went from broke to riches, how others been bald, now they have a head full of hair. There is no such thing as something for nothing. You need to put a time and effort in everything.

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What helps me, is to do the gratitude journal. I like to put the date and time every time I”m doing this, so I can know my progress. And I try to put everyday 5 different gratitudes. Are you aware of that there are the people who are blind and they don”t see this beautiful fall nature colors? Do you know that someone is out there that they have a terrible hair fall and they are afraid of being bald? Maybe that sounds funny to you now, but counting your blessings will put you in that state of excitement, peacefulness and happiness.

One more exercise that I love so much is asking myself all the time: “What would do now person who is truly happy?” How do they live everyday life? How do they care of themselves? What do they eat, how often and at what time? How do they spend their free time? Where do they go? Who are they friends? I believe now you get the point. When you get the question about what they do, start doing it yourself. Easy, just DECIDE to do whatever it takes to be happy, because if you are waiting for that something or somebody, you might wait forever. Always remember that there is somebody who pray to be at the place where are you now. There is somebody without the cosy chair that you can sit on, and that they don”t have access to all the information in the world called Internet.

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If you are into improving yourself, your life, you might be heard of how we should work hard, cut off our sleep, get up early, but how healthy is that? I am the living proof, I looked, and I was feeling terrible. What is the point of trying to achieve all your goals if you feel exhausted, you are sick. So, slow down and work on your goals one step at a time, taking care of yourself, your family and friends all at the same time. Life balance, they key is balancing all the life aspects. Don not exaggerate in any of the area, and always give best of yourself at everything you do.

Also, people don’t know how to be fully present, they don’t know how to be mindful. Are you really present when with your children? Are you really present when spending your time with the partner? People that are in the office often time thinks that they should be at home, with their kids and spouse. How effective is that? Not at all! Being at one place thinking how you should be on another is not a way of smart living. Be fully present with whatever you do. That is the secret. Give best of yourself at every situation. Live life of no regrets.

So, what is happiness for you? You need to be clear what that means for you. Because somebody is happy staying at home and taking care of hes or her children, while career person cannot imagine staying at home and doing all the household stuff, instead person is passionate about building career.

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I suggest you to take a piece of paper and write down all the things that makes you happy, and do it, no matter what they say. Is this keeping life balance between career and family life? Is it having time for yourself? Are you one of those who wanna stay at home with the cats? There is no wrong answer, because it is answer. You answer it!

I really hope this text helped you think about happiness, how important it is, and I hope that you try be happy at all the times, once again, count the blessings in you life, and that will put you in happiness state.

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Love you all, Maja!