Attitude, Personal Development, Time Management

The power of focus

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Focus is huge. How many times you were completely focused on something? You were so interested in the listening to conversation, for example, that you couldn”t hear somebody outside calling you?

I know my sister was often numb, if I can say this way. We were calling her for a minutes, but she always had that look, like she is busy in thinking something else, contemplating, she had always had that imaginary look.

In this video below, I talk about all the things that I could remember about being focused. I really hope you will like it, and that is going to be of great value to you.

I will never forget a Jim Rohn saying in one of the videos on Youtube. When he was with his kids, he was thinking office. Being in the office, he thought of being with his kids instead.

Do you see how this habit is broken, not good? You are going to be always in lack. You will never actually experience all that you are working on, or experience in the full.

Book atomic habits is huge. We are sum of the habits that we were doing for the years, but that can be changed. What would you like to change in your every day life? Tell us honestly!

  1. Be consistent in whatever you do

  2. Optimize and track your successes and failures

  3. Don”t move on until you reach all your goals Source

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Many people lack in direction, that is why they never reach their goal, or most importantly, they are never really focused. Confusion and indecisiveness is a problem in them. They often only wonder, never taking any massive action.

I don”t know have you heard about the Tony Robbins. Most probably you did, reading this Personal Development blog. He promotes a massive action, he is a massive action freak. We need to take massive action towards the things that we want.

Where your focus goes energy flows.

I don’t know about you, but I often times think in term, how there is an Africa out there, people living in poverty, even though I cannot see it with my naked eye.

It is not in my focus, but there also in another country is my mom and dad, now sitting on a terrace and enjoying their coffee. Isn”t that amazing?! Things and people are happening anyway, despite of we see them or not.

Your focus and attention now determines how you are going to live in the future.

2 people walking along are going to influence one another. The only question is, which one of them is going to be more dominant.

If you are one who is more dominant, your walking partner will have all his or her attention on you, and what you have to say, their all focus will be on you.

You be that dominant person at put all your attention on the good that you do.

People, circumstances, and life in general shaped us for who we are now.

What or who you wanna become in the future? Decide today, and put all your focus on that. Study it, be in it, learn it, try it, and you shall become. It is the law!

Focus on the good within people, and they will feel that. I had so many people challenges. Working with very fat people, slumpy people, stupid people, but instead, I chose to focus on the good in them. And guess what, we had amazing relationship all along. We were amazing teams!

Is your focus on the good in people or bad?

You can see also the power of focus by focusing only on the red color around you.

Do this exercise now: Look around yourself and look for the red, only look for the red color. How many objects that you see are red?

Now tell me what are the yellow that you saw? The chance is, that you didn’t saw any yellow. Why? Because you were looking only for red. And you get what you focus on.

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Take care of your body

You must sleep 7 to 9 hours a day to be able to be fully focused on what you do. Your mind has to be sharp, and you cannot do that, if you didn’t have enough sleep. It is that simple!

Go to bed at the same time each evening. For example, I go to bed every night at 9 pm. I first read 30 minutes, and then I am ready to sleep. If I cannot fall asleep in 15 minutes time, I would take a book again, and read for another 30 minutes. 15 minutes rest again, and trying to fall asleep again, and so on.

It works for me. I hope it will work for you too.

The only goal is to be well restful. You can also do the thing like “power nap” in the afternoon. I do that as well. But I meditate. And it is like a reset, it’s like you are starting fresh.

One more thing that you can do, is putting your phone behind the laptop screen while you working. It does miracles to me. You don”t have a temptation to check the notifications, but to be fully focused on what you do.

Out of your sight, out of your mind.

You only check your phone if you hear actual notification. Even more, you can turn off all your sounds, and not check your phone at all until the work is done.

Focus can bring you so far. What do you want? What do you really, really want?

Focus is a skill that can be learned overtime. You only need to put the time and effort in it. Work on it every day.

What is your intake or opinion on focus? Are you working on focusing yourself fully and entirely on what you do, or this is not of importance to you? Tell us in a comment section below 🙂

I like to focus myself on what I do lately so often. For example, if I sat down 2 hours for writing, I am not going to go to check my hair 😀 (I know :D), or I am not going to respond to that received message if it”s not important.

I really really really hope that will help you!

Tell me if it did, or if it did not.

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Much Love,

Maja.

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Why Everything Is So Hard For Me

Things are not hard to do, it is your thinking that makes it so. Things are not simply hard to do, it is your resistance to the process that makes it hard.

People might say it is hard to find a time to cook, but really, if you value to make your own healthy food, and it is important for you to eat well balanced food, buy knowing why you are doing it, would it really be hard to go to kitchen and make this meal? No it wouldn”t! We are simply the ones that makes things hard to do. We are resistant to the process.

Things are easy to do. You just go there and do them. In case you don”t know what you need to do, you simply need to find a way to do them. It is about your priorities. You need to prioritize things in life, and then all of the sudden things will be very easy to do, because now you know why is important for you.

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HOW CAN I ACHIEVE MY GOALS

Let”s say you set yourself a big goal such as living in a mansion. To look at yourself now, where you are and your circumstances, it is going to be hard for you to know how, but by knowing why is it important for you, you will find a ways to get there. Break the goal into small steps, and do everyday something that will make you closer to achieve that goal.

Really look at things deeply and notice how everything is a process, everything has beginning, middle and an end. Everything is a process! And nothing should be hard to do if you really enjoy it, seeing yourself through this, already successful.

I loved the article by Tiny Buddha website that you can find HERE

“Have respect for yourself, and patience and compassion. With these, you can handle anything.” ~Jack Kornfield

Why don’t we do the things that are good for us?

So, why don’t we do the things that we know are good for us? The short answer is that we are humans and we have emotions. We are fundamentally driven towards pleasure and away from pain. Exactly why you tend to gravitate towards the chocolate or the easy task rather than eating an apple or completing your project.

If you like to research, question everything. Quora is a site perfect for that. It is based on questions and answers kind of site, and you can find quite a lot about this topics in there. I found a perfect article about the things being hard or easy, but I completely forgot to copy that article for you, so really sorry, you will have to research yourself. 🙂

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This is my most viewed and liked Blog Post about the mindset that I think it would be a huge benefit for you. You can read it here by clicking this link: https://wp.me/sa101U- It is about the mindset. How people have fixed and growth mindset, and explanation of the same.

Check maybe you have some beasts weighting you down. Such overspending money that you don”t have, eating very unhealthy food, watching too much of the television, taking drugs, smoking… These are all the things that weight people down.

It is easy to address them. Just watch your mentors, the ones that do inspire you. How do they behave? Are they taking that food, or are they promoting to eat completely another? The one that is super healthy, with live enzimes, vitamins and minerals.

Maybe you are just not motivated enough. You are making excuses for yourself and for your actions. Really, it is all about the priorities. What do you prioritize? If you really want to loose the weight, seeing yourself super fit and knowing what will that feel like, how amazing would you feel, you will try on each and every diet, pill, whatever, you will try all the exercises to loose that fat, and so, naturally, you will be motivated to your end goal.

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Because we make it fucking hard.

Here’s the deal:

The human body wants Netflix, chill, excessive amounts of palatable foods and an attractive member of the opposite sex.

We want to be cozy. We want to do the least. We never question what is the most that I can do in this situation or with that thing. We want least effort. And that is what weight us down.

Maybe you too much use of the term: “It is hard!” Repeating yourself things are hard, you are going to get more of the hard things. Say out loud: “It is easy!” “Things are easy to do!” because it”s true, our resistance to that things are making it hard, which I already mentioned.

So, it is easy to let go of the some of the people in your life, people that doesn”t serve you anymore, people that don”t support you. Because, hey, you value yourself, you love yourself, you appreciate yourself, you are good friend, and so, you are not going to let anyone less than that in your life. It is easy to let go of friendships that doesn”t serve you anymore.

We should stand out for ourselves, our core values, our preferences. Finally decide what it is that you want, and naturally things are going to be easy for you to do, because you know why you are doing this. Your why should be very strong. Your why should makes you keep going! That will make things easy for you to do. Simply by knowing why you are doing this, and how will that benefit you.

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Let”s say you are dating a guy or a girl. You two have a great time together, you are two seeing each other for 6 months, but somehow he or she doesn”t want a relationship. What do you do? You know that it is best for you to just let go, but you can”t, why is that? Because you are afraid of being alone. You are afraid of loosing someone with who you had great time.

But really, does not peace of your mind should be your number one priority? It should! So saying “Stop!” or “No!” should bring you that peace of mind which we all want.

I really hope I helped you with this article and showed you how things are simply easy to do, we are the ones that makes it hard.

Please, leave me a comment down bellow and write some of your words about things being easy or hard.

Thanks so much for that, I much appreciate!

Love, Maja!

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Millionaire Mind Hacks

People say that we need to first work on our mindset. And I believe it”s true. Why? Subconsciously, if you believe you cannot have anything you want, chances are that you are not going to have it.

I like this guy, Wesley Virgin. Why? Because he has a lots of energy, he is energetic and loving. For me! You can feel who is really honest and sincere, and I can feel this guy really is.

Online business is something that will just grow and grow. People all over the world are waking up. They are tired of being tired. They see others now how they travel, they buy, and they gift to others. They see that it”s possible, and so, they want that for themselves too. That is beautiful! Keep looking for solutions. Now is the time to build your online business. The time has come! People buy online more than ever, people attend online courses more than ever, people talk with people online more than ever and make friends. Why don”t you want that for yourself too, and then teach others how to free themselves from the corporate world too. Wesley Virgin reveals his truth here and is shoving you how.

Look at this energetic guy. He was dead broke, and look at him now:

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Focus is defined as to concentrate on something in particular. Focus  is defined as to bring into view. An example of focus is to put all of one’s energy into a science project. An example of focus is to adjust a microscope to better see a specimen.

Focus is so important because it is the gateway to all thinking: perception, memory, learning, reasoning, problem solving, and decision making. Without good focus, all aspects of your ability to think will suffer.

Affirmations are very very powerful. You affirming yourself every day not even releasing. You tell yourself either you are smart or dumb. Why would you not affirm yourself you are smart? Because you are! Even more than that. Wesley Virgin has a great set of CDs that can help you fix your self-esteem, put you in a state of loving, appreciating, and accept yourself for who you are. You can buy these CDs here 

Everything in life is achievable. The question is do you believe this is true or not. Whether you believe it or not, you are right. Choose to believe in yourself. Choose to trust everything. Choose to do every day small baby steps towards your goals.

This guy is so energetic and passionate. You can hear in his voice how confident he is in himself and in what he do. I like confident people. He didn”t been all the time like this, but he was working on himself. He used to cry like a little baby and praying God to help him live a life he knows he deserves it. There are two kinds of people on this planet. The ones that do something about it, and the ones that don”t, they are watching TV and sitting in the pub.

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To be around confident people is contagious. Find a mentor who is your role model. The one that will inspire you to push you forward. Wesley Virgin is that for me. You can find his secrets here, how he attained wealth, and most importantly, he set himself and his family free for the rest of his life. How cool is that?

Making money online doesn”t necessarily mean it”s easy. No, it is not easy, but its possible. Once you figure things out, everything will fall into place, and you will get that ball rolling. Get that ball rolling I mean more and more people will come to your site over time, and purchase what you have to offer, but you need to build that trust in them.

Wesley Billion Dollar Virgin explains how to build an online business. Everything these days is automatically. Everything works in our favor. We have more than ever time, but at the same time, there is no time left haha. The question is what are your priorities? Wesley Virgin explains here how to build an online business and where to start, if you are confused.

We are living in a world where everything is possible. Living in a world of high achievers. There are the people that are showing us how everything is possible. And we should believe them. Why you think this house and that car in not possible for you to have it? The ones that are having that and even more, are not any smarter than you, they just believed in themselves and most importantly they took action.

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You don”t need any magical things to achieve success that you desire, only strong will, investments, and hard work and dedication. To invest money is crucial. This training and teachings by this guy is one of that. Investments that will pay you back for sure. But it takes time. The question is, how bad you want it?!

Everything in this world takes time and patience. The world that we living now looks completely different than 20 years ago. We evolved! We grew! Our consciousness is much better, and so, we can create more amazing stuff for this planet, and help people all over the world with just one click of the mousse. Impact!

Take this teachings now and learn how to take full ownership of your life. Live a life stress free, and be able to be, do and have whatever you want. How that sounds like?

Nothing will fall in your lap just like that, you need to work for it. Don”t be afraid of that. Do do hard work now to have a better future. Take risks and invest money. Teachings and trainings are one of them.

What you can find in a Millionaire Mindset Hacks training is:

  • Welcome to the overnight millionaire system
  • Wesley Virgins story
  • Overnight millionaire program
  • Money mind conditioning audios
  • How to make money online for beginners
  • How to earn $1.000 per day with no skills
  • Join me on social media
  • This video is for future millionaires

I really hope I helped you see the sea of possibilities, because there is. There are the countless of possibilities that you can go into and earn money from. These days more and more people are working from home and they build their own business and brand. You can be one of them. Choose to do than now and here before it”s too late.

I wish you every success!

Maja!

 

Personal Development

What Is Success?

Success for you doesn”t necessarily means success for me. What is success for you, it might not be for somebody else, and that is all there is.

There is no destination for everything. Once you reach destination, you are not going to be more happy than you are now. You simply won”t. Look at success as a journey. There is no end to your goals. Once you reach your goals, you will want to reach some other, new goals. It is about the journey. It is about be, do and have better than yesterday. It is about growing and evolving every day.

What it is that you wanna achieve in the future? A stay at home mother of 5 and the one who is into career, can be equally happy. You need to define what success means to you.

Successful people are not going to talk about the success at last, but about the journey that they been through, challenges that they faced and they stood up, stronger than ever.

Success is not final; failure is not fatal: It is the courage to continue that counts.”

What are some signs that you will be successful in the future? You are super competitive. You know how to outwork everyone. You know the things, you know them in full.

Success is all about mental state. It is a state that you either feel or not feel successful. It is how you look at things.

I am sitting now at the airport waiting for my flight and I feel quite successful, even thought for some I might not look successful, I don”t have a house, car and all the exotic vacations, but I managed to be successful in all the undertakings.

There are the ways that you can discover what truly matters to you, and what success means for you. It is about asking yourself questions, powerful questions that will reveal who you truly are and what are your values.

Questions that you need to ask yourself in order to discover what success truly means to you are:

I am suggesting that you take a notebook or piece of paper and start writing your answers. Really, and truly, be honest with yourself, and write like there is no tomorrow. Be completely and utterly honest with yourself.

One more things that is really important is that you need to be specific. You can”t just say that you want happiness. You need to be clear to say what things you do to make you happy, with whom and where.

I will never forget when I asked a friend of mine a question related to her work. I wasn”t ask specific question, and guess what, I didn”t get specific answer, not the one that satisfied me, or answered to my question. The day I realized that I need to ask more specific questions, changed entire course of my life.

 “It is better to fail in originality than to succeed in imitation.”

— Herman Melville

There are many aspects of life that we need to manage well in order to find happiness, true fulfillment and success. We are body, mind and spirit and we need to feed all three in order to function well. It is the same with life. Just some of the life aspects are: work (your career), health (your physical health), learning (your personal development), social (your relationships with others), spiritual (your relationship with the greater power).

You need to find a way to feed all 5. If you are into spirituality and you are learning all about this, that wont bring you any good in your health or career.

What you get will never make you truly happy – who you become will. -Tony Robbins

I made a Youtube video about this topic, and I am really passionate about this because it is the thing that all should consider to think about it. We need to define what success means to us.

Success can mean: feeling that tingle of excitement about what you do, sticking with what matters through hard times, living a life you can feel proud of in retrospect.

Success provides confidence, security, a sense of well-being, the ability to contribute at a greater level, hope and leadership. Without success, you, the group, your company, your goals, dreams and even entire civilizations cease to survive.

Success can mean: feeling that tingle of excitement about what you do, sticking with what matters through hard times, living a life you can feel proud of in retrospect. These talks say it all.

There is a short video about success and what leads people to success. I highly recommend to watch this video. It is very short and fun. Here it is:

What will lead you to success is: Passion, Work, Focus, Persist, Ideas, Good, Push and Serve.

There is no success if you are not doing anything without passion. You need to be led by love and passion in order to feel and be successful. Work, work, work, nothing without work. I know! There is no easy way to success, but always hard work will guarantee you success. Focus! You need to keep the focus on what and why do you want it. People who have a laser focus to the goal that they wanna achieve never miss the target.

Persistence in everything is the key. To fail, but to stood up is the key to success. You are building confidence by that. Soon after you are realizing that a lion lies within you. Ideas, you gotta have ideas. You need to relax in order ideas to flow to you. Everything in life that you see now someone sometime had an idea in his mind.

You need to be good at it, and the only way to become good at something is practice, practice, practice. In the times that you feel down you need to find that last atom of the energy and push yourself to continue with your work. Serving people is the best and easiest way to get to the riches.

I really hope you will like this text. If you do, give me a like, share to your friends, and subscribe for more articles for high achievers.

I wish you all the best!

Sincerely,

Maja!

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How To Shift Your Paradigm

Take an honest look at your life. We tend to lie ourselves. Are you really living how you wanna live? Do you like what you see? Are you behaving how you wanna behave? Do you like who you are?

Paradigms are generally defined as a framework that has unwritten rules and that directs actions. A paradigm shift occurs when one paradigm loses its influence and another takes over. The concept defines paradigm and paradigm shift and explains how it can relate to company strategies and industry cycles. Paradigms are set of ideas that we have around everything. It is the way how we eat, sleep, work, study, read, having fun, do the household things. Good news is, paradigms can be changed, you just need to realize what didn”t serve you, and let go of the way that you was doing, and implement some new and productive strategies. 

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It is the way how you think, how you talk, how you breathe, how you walk.. You are programmed to earn that amount of money. You are programmed to date this kind of man/woman. You are programmed to do this kind of work. You don”t know for any better or different. Realize that now, know it is possible, you deserve it, and take daily baby step actions towards this better goals.

Our environments are also programming us. Your parents programmed you. What are the cases that you are living same or a similar life now as your parents used to live. How you can change that? Think how would it be like if you had a parents that were nice, happy, caring, full of trust.

Here is exercise that I highly recommend:

Step One: Write down one thing – that goal, that dream, that challenge that you have not yet resolved in your life. The subconscious mind thrives on detail, so describe it to yourself as vividly as you can.
Step Two: Write down every association that you connect to this thing: everything you think about it, good and bad, everything that the thought of it brings to your mind.
One approach I have found extremely effective is to “map” it in much the same way writers come up with plot concepts. Draw a circle around the words or sentence you came up with in Step One. Then, in the space around that circle, write down your associations as they come to you, encircling each one and connecting it with a line to the original encircled goal. When you feel like you’ve come up with a substantial number of associations, take a good look at what your mind has shown you. You’re looking at your paradigms.
Step Three: It’s time to address your paradigms and ask “why?” I suggest that you zero in on a few of the most powerful paradigms, the ones that have the biggest negative impact. Ask yourself, “Why do I think this? Where does it come from? Where did I get such an idea?” Keep on digging until you’ve exhausted every possible scenario. And finally, now that you know what your paradigm is on any given topic, create an affirmation that will assist you in re-programming your mind, something that is the opposite of your paradigm. For example, if your paradigm is you’ll never earn a lot of money, your affirmation might be: I am so happy and grateful now that money comes to me on a continual basis through multiple sources. I am a magnet to money; I now have all that I want. Write your affirmation on a 3×5 card and repeat it daily, as many times as possible. In time, you’ll begin to notice yourself thinking and acting in a different way. And, just when you think you’ve got it, it will be time to work on another paradigm!

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A paradigm is a standard, perspective, or set of ideas. A paradigm is a way of looking at something. The word paradigm comes up a lot in the academic, scientific, and business worlds. A new paradigm in business could mean a new way of reaching customers and making money.

So, the new way. What are the old ways of something that you was doing and you know it didn”t or doesn”t serve you? Try different approach to something. Do the different way combing your hair. Instead of going to the kitchen and making yourself some coffee upon waking up, you can read a book after having some big glass of lemonade and then having coffee along with your breakfast. That is just one of the examples.

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Tell me in the comments below what you can do differently today or tomorrow, at your job, next job interview or a family gathering? What you can do differently in order to get some better and new results?

Life is not just a set of same old actions, people or destinations. Dare to do some things differently today and see how easy and exciting is to get some new and better results.

Do the exercise today as well about shifting your paradigm. In this exercise you will realize how same old actions led you to get same old results. You need to channge something in order something to be changed.

Smart and wise old man Einstein once said: “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.”

As I said, everything is easy, but only if you are aware of the things that doesn”t serve you. Life is a set uf the ups and downs, and nothing is wrong with that, you just need to realize what led you down and change it. There is no such thing as something for nothing. You need to work for it.

First thing is this exercise above that I mentioned. It is very easy, but you need to be honest with yourself.

Please like this text, share with your friends, subscribe for more, and don”t forget to leave me in the comments below what are the things that you are going to change from today on.

I wish you every success!

Sincerely, Maja!