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Motivation for 2020!

Year is just a year. It is what you make out of year. Everybody had a both, good and bad years. Some things you cannot control, and why you would. It is not a good thing trying to control everything around you. You just live this life and give best of yourself in New 2020.

You need to be able to motivate yourself. Nobody is going to come to you and tell you how you must do this or that. You need to find your own reasons to motivate yourself and succeed in life. Really, you, need motivate you.

I made a youtube video as well about the motivation. Watch it here:

I hope you will get some inspiration from this video.

I believe how we need to make resolutions on a daily basis. If you are going to start new thing first of January, what are the chances you will continue with this resolution all throughout the year? Researches show how 95% of people stop with their resolutions by the 15. of January. Just a 15 days of doing the thing and then giving up. This is exactly why we are not making resolutions anymore, because we know we will not go through.

Make a resolution to be better NOW, every and each moment. This is the secret of life. Every and each moment give best of yourself, but ask yourself first what really matters to you.

Everyday is a fresh start. Everyday you are choosing who you are going to be this day. You may woke up and decide that you are going to apply for a better deserving jobsall day long and feel wonderful. You may decide instead to go to office, spend all day long with your kids. You may be tired of being tired, and you may do whatever it takes to work on your body energy.

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BELIEVE IN YOURSELF

Believe in yourself once and for all. You are here for the reason and purpose. You are for the reason on this planet earth. Believing in yourself is so crucial. Believing in yourself, people will believe in you more. You will automatically act different, talk different and walk different. People will trust in your ability if you believe in yourself.

IF YOU CAN DREAM IT, YOU CAN DO IT

No one has dreams like you have yours. No one can dream your dreams, thas is why your dreams are yours. You are not dreaming this dreams, for no reason. You are dreaming your dreams, because they are yours, and you know you are capable of bringing them to fruition.

WHERE THERE IS A WILL, THERE IS A WAY

The one who have a will, will find a way. Have you ever came across situation that you couldn”t stand anymore, and you decided to do whatever it takes to make it happen, to change, to make situation better? You had a will, and you used all the forces to made that happen. At first you didn”t know the how, but after making that first step, second showed up, third showed up, and after some time, you came out of a difficult situation.

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DO NOT WAIT, THE TIME WILL NEVER BE “JUST RIGHT”

I have a purpose and goal about this blog, but still, I know almost nothing about blogging. So, should I just continue or wait to learn what is really like being blogger? Of course not .To wait for something to be sure about, you might wait forever. Everything is unsecure. Life is unsecure. Crossing the street is unsecure. Do not wait for a perfect time, because there is no such thing as perfect time. To do the perfectly right is now, with the tools and resources you have now.

BELIEVE IN THE BEAUTY OF YOUR DREAMS

No one can dream your dreams. You are holding your dreams for some reason and purpose. No one can dream your dreams. Everybody hold dreams that they know they can bring into fruition. You better version of you knows who you are. Don”t stop! Start with a small baby steps. Every day, take small actions towards your goals. It always seems impossible until it”s done

KEEP YOUR EYES ON THE STARS, AND YOUR FEET ON THE GROUND

Aim for the moon, if you miss, you may hit a star. While walking on this planet earth, don”t forget to look above you. There is whole different world. Looking at the sky, notice how there is limitless space, what will make you feel better. There is something beautiful when you realize you are drop of the ocean and the ocean as such. Think of yourself as a high valuable person, but also, see others as a special beings as well, and appreciate them for who they are.

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Know that days, months and years will pass. What is important is what are you doing with this day today, month and your plans for the year. Live a life of no regrets. You might regret what you did in the past, but the time is now, now you are creating future. Nothing just comes easily, we need to work for it. What it is that you want? Create a list of the things that you want for this year to be. That might be developing new skills, creating a second income or finally graduate. What it is that you really want, and put the time and effort to get it.

For the times that you don”t feel motivated, you just don”t know how to inspire yourself. You need to inspire yourself daily. You need to read blogs, listen podcasts, go to seminars. You need to inspire yourself daily. Let inspire you a life that you know you can live it. Imagine a life of your dreams, know that you can, and let that inspire and motivate you. It is that easy!

I really hope this blog post now inspired you and motivated you to get that butt out of seat and plan your amazing future, because truly, everything is in your hands.

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Until that time, I wish you all the best and have an amazing and productive 2020 year.

 

 

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How To Believe In Yourself

How bad do you want to believe in yourself? I want you to imagine your future self. How that future you feels? Powerful, right? Really, the ones that are believing in themselves can move the mountains. Don”t you wanna believe in yourself more? You are just a very tiny bit aware of your capabilities. The truth is, you are more than who you think you are. There is an lion sitting in yourself, waiting to be released.

Once you discover how powerful you are, nobody will have a power to upset you. You will go through life with a smile on your face and peace of mind, which is most important.

I made a video about how to believe in yourself, if you wanna watch. It is HERE. 

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This is a process. You cannot start believing in yourself tomorrow, but what you need to do, is to take a small baby steps and work on it. Exposing yourself everyday, face your fears, read books and implement taught.

You have to grow from the inside out. None can teach you, none can make you spiritual. There is no other teacher but your own soul. -Swami Vivekananda

Really, self talk is very important. What you saying to yourself eventually becomes true. Choose your thoughts wisely. I talk with myself lately, and guess what, feels so incredible, you get the feeling that you have control over yourself and your life, and it is true.

Think Of A Fear You Have Overcome

Everybody has some fears. Everybody! The ones who are rich and the ones who are poor. The only difference is that, there are the people who know that they need to act despite of that, and there are the ones who are continuing to fear, not doing anything about it.

Fear is something that you SHOULD overcome it. Fear is something that you have for a reason. If you fearing something, but you wanna grow as a person, you SHOULD face it. Feel the fear and do it anyway post you can read HERE also.

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I will never forget when I liked a guy and he liked me as well, but nothing happened for a months, and then, i decided to do something about it. I was praying for days God to give me courage, just to give him my number, and I did it. I knew if I do that, my confidence will skyrocket, and it did. I felt so powerful!

Notice when you next time feel the fear, because it is for your personal growth, but do it anyway. What is the worst that can happen? Nothing! Fear is just false evidence appearing real.

I believe if you keep your faith, you keep your trust, you keep the right attitude, if you’re grateful, you’ll see God open up new doors. -Joel Osteen

Believing in yourself is not something outrageous, or far fetched, but you need to put a time and effort in it. How to put a time and effort in everything that you want, need and desire you can watch here and learn more: You Need To Put a Time And Effort In It.

Some tools that helped me is affirmations, visualizations and meditations, and of course EFT technique. All this tools help you raise your vibrations. By raising your vibrations you start to see other realities, other possibilities. Self talk is also very important. If you wait for that somebody to believe in you, you might wait forever. So, you better you encourage you: Motivational Videos And Self Talk

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One of the first things you need to develop is Faith. Faith that it is possible. Faith that you can have it. Faith that you can be. Faith that you can do. And soon after you will see the evidences of it.

How computers are created? This guys didn”t first seen computers and then they created them. But they had a faith that the computer can exist, they can create, because they had a faith. Have a faith in yourself and better you, and soon after you will see the way of accomplishing it.

Hope is important because it can make the present moment less difficult to bear. If we believe that tomorrow will be better, we can bear a hardship today. -Thich Nhat Hanh

The more you practice choosing faith, the evidence will start to build, and eventually, your faith will turn into a belief.

I just read a beautiful article about believing in yourself. There are the 4 steps to do. The first one is Faith, then Trust, Confidence and Belief. Please do yourself, me and beautiful Christie Inge favor and read her beautiful article about the steps that you need to go to if you wanna believe in yourself HERE.

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Truly, it is not that hard to believe in yourself. The only thing that you need to ask yourself is how bad do i want it. Truly, the ones who believe in themselves move mountains. Life is too short to doubt everything. To doubt life, ourselves, other people. You don”t wanna live this life, the only that you have, living in the doubt.

Find that way to believe in yourself. Question everything that you do and picture yourself courageous. Because you truly is. You came to this planet because you are loved. You came here for the reason. So why doubt?! Somebody, God, Universe, believed in you. The only person that is stopping you is you. So you better you believe in you, and naturally, people around you will believe in you. Why is that?! Because everything comes from you. YOU get to choose who you are going to be, not the outside circumstances.

“Believe in yourself, and the rest will fall into place. Have faith in your own abilities, work hard and there is nothing you cannot accomplish.” – Brad Henry

Guys!? I really hope I inspired you. For real, because his things are for real. Pretty please, let me know in a comments below have I impressed you and did I give you a hope that you need, faith and belief in better tomorrow?

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You Are a Badass

I am going to be reviewing a book that I loved so much. It is called You Are A Badass by Jen Sincero. I like the funniness of the Jen Sincero and her style of writing. She is talking how you can kick the ass of fear, stop doubting your greatness and start living an awesome life.

I love love love site called Book Depository. They are so wonderful. Every time I buy a book, they send me a book mark as well. Order your books from them wherever you are. They have a free shipping worldwide. Check them out HERE (Affiliate link), and order your favorite book at NO SHIPPING COST.

I am still under the impression of the book. Liked it a lot. The advises are very easy and understandable, followed with her life experiences.

If you are planing to write a book just look at the contents on the first pages of the books that you have, and you will see how are they organised. There are the parts, and then the chapters.

Jen wrote a 5 parts, and then the all parts have 6 or 7 chapters. The first part is about: “How You Got This Way”, second “How To Embrace Your Inner Badass” then the “How To Tap Into The Inner Motherlode”, How To Get Over Your B.S. Already”, “How To Kick Some Ass”.

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If you want to live a life you”ve never lived, you have to do things you”ve never done.

Part 1: How You Got This Way

We are all programmed to think how we are just our bodies and names of that body, but we are much more. We are the creators. My body”s name is Maja. But who is My? I am much much more than the things I do. I am much much more than I think I am. Other people programmed us, our parents, friends, society, but doesn”t have to stay this way. Do whatever it takes to work on your beliefs from now on, stretch yourself every day and help others do the same. Help them realize the stories that they saying to themselves. That they are much much more than their “weaknesses”.

All of us are connected to this limitless power and most of us aren”t using but a fraction of it.

You cannot create a future focusing on the past. You need to live in the present and constantly being focused to surrender on what it is, buy keep an eye of what you want to create tomorrow.

Part 2: How To Embrace Your Inner Badass

  1. APPRECIATE HOW SPECIAL YOU ARE

There is no other person that look and act like you. You are very special, unique and authentic. And please, from now on appreciate that. You are the only you that will ever be. You are kind of a big deal. That special you are. Never forget that.

You are responsible for what you say and do. You are not responsible for whether or not people freak out about it.

2. DROWN YOURSELF IN AFFIRMATIONS

Affirmations definitely work. I know for myself. I am repeating affirmations every day, talking out loud, or silently, and it feels amazing. I am at the point now when I am starting to believe all the things that I was saying  to myself.

Now, why you should affirm yourself? You”ve been living a lie, talking about yourself all the stuff that are half truth. You are so much more than you think you are. You are a miracle! You are that special. You are not your name, you are not your style, you are not your degree, you are not your role. You are so much more!

3. DO THE THINGS YOU LOVE

Take care of yourself as if you”re the most wonderful person you ever met. If you like going to live music and you don”t remember when you been last time, now is the time. Why would you not go? If this is something that you really like, why would you stop going there? Nobody is going to bring you to the live music, you need to bring yourself. Go to the live music tonight, and notice how wonderful it is.

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4. FIND A REPLACEMENT

Listen to your thoughts. I mean, really listen to them. What are you saying to yourself when you do some “mistake”? What are you saying yourself for the days not being proactive? What are you saying to yourself after kicking of something of kitchen counter? All that really matters. What are you really saying to yourself, is of big importance. Find a replacement. And say something nice to yourself next time.

5. DITCH THE SELF-DEPRECATING HUMOR

Laugh at yourself every day. Every morning when you see yourself in the mirror, instead of telling yourself “Yikes”, laugh at yourself, and tell yourself how not everything has to be perfect. You are perfect in that imperfection. People often times take lives seriously, but the matter of fact is, it is not that serious. Laugh at yourself every day and notice how you feeling after. You will feel joyous, happy and contentment. Also, beating yourself up is a low vibration, you are vibrating from a victim.

6. LET THE LOVE IN

We need our bodies more than they need us. So, appreciate your body. If your body feels good, all your mental state will feel good as well. I know myself every morning when I do yoga, I feel like the world is mine, and I feel like I can conquer the world, feel like I can jump out of my skin. Love your body, nourish your body with the right foods, go for a massage, give it a hot sex.

Comparison is the fastest way to take all the fun out of life.

7. DON”T COMPARE YOURSELF TO OTHERS

You probably not even realizing how special you are. Imagine Marilyn Monroe compared to Kate Moss and decided to loose her curves. We would not know Marilyn like a sexy lady with a hips and beautiful curly blond hair. Picasso is painting most beautiful pictures, you trying to copy some certain picture would look completely different, but you rock at some other things. That special you are!

8. FORGIVE YOURSELF (THIS ONE IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT)

To be truly O.K. with yourself is crucial if you wanna live extraordinary, fulfilling and happy life. If you need to apologize to someone, just pick up the phone and call them. I”ll never forget when I picked up the phone and call my mother and sister (one call after another) to apologize for being childish and taking things personally, not speaking with them. I felt so relieving and free. Was wonderful feeling. Like the one: “Everything is in my control.”

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It is truly gem this book. It will make you smile and give you that trust of how all is possible, and especially for you. It gives you that sense of not taking things to seriously but working towards your goals no matter what. Do this ACTION today and buy book NOW. It is truly life saver.

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Life Is Like a Jigsaw Puzzle

I love love quote by Steve Jobs. It goes like this:  “You can’t connect the dots looking forwardyou can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something — your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever.

I will tell you what I think about this quote and my meaning of it. Let”s say that you have some big goals for yourself in the future. You believe somehow that you can do it. You understand that everybody can, but you don”t have a clue how the hell is going to happen. Nobody knows! You cannot connect the dots looking forward. Nobody can! You cannot know with what are you going to deal with. Nobody knows! Tomorrow is a mystery and the time is NOW. Just decide NOW how that picture has to look like.

Looking backwards you can see how all happened for a reason. Everything fall into place. If the details of a problem fall into place, you suddenly understand how they are connected and you can solve the problem. You understand where your actions led you. You understand where your story that you was telling yourself and others led you. It is that simple. I believe now, looking back at your past, you understand why things happened.

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“you can live your life forward, but understand it

backwards”.

You don’t know what you don’t know and you don’t know the future. So, dots cannot be connected looking into the future, only looking into the past.

I am a big believer into believing in ourselves, believing that is possible for us.

Have you ever played jigsaw puzzle? A beautiful landscape picture broken into thousand pieces (1.000). You know how it looks like. You seen picture on the box, you picked that one, but there is a journey to make that picture whole. You start to make the picture. You found couple of puzzles and you get distracted. You go and leave it laying there. The next day you are committed to do as much as you can. You have a laser focus on what are you doing, but all of the sudden you got tired and bored. You leave all and go doing some other things. I believe you get the point by now?

There is a journey to everything. Whatever you wanna accomplish is already here, you just need to connect these dots. And there will be times when you will feel tired, fed up, feeling like quitting because it”s too hard, but I hope you will never do, because what will you see at the end, this beautiful picture, is worth every day spending on it. Do you get the point? If you do, leave me a comment in the section below.

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Of course, to do all journey is much easier if you do it with your partner, your siblings, family. There will be people that will give you will to finish it all. They will push you through tough times.

If you don”t have a partner to go through whole journey, you gotta do it by yourself. It”s fine! You”ll get stronger! There are thousands of women and man, who go through all kind of situations, most of them pull themselves out as a victor, not a victim. Be one of them!

Everything is happening for a reason. Things, stuff and situations are given to you, because they know you can get through all of this. And if you have to solve some problem, look at this like opportunity, not setback.

We all go through life with a challenges. Always, but always remember that you are not alone. We are 7 billions people on this planet. You still think that you are the only one who is trying to put together thousands pieces (1000)? Think again! The question is here, are you believing or doubting yourself?

I really hope I inspired you here, with this content. I really do!

Please, leave a comment below. Tell me what you like the most, and what resonated with you the most.

Also, share with your friends, family, co-workers. Help them understand more about the puzzle effect and teach them patience.

Yours sincerely,

Maja!

Personal Development

Diving Deep

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Diving deep is a questioning everything, to examine something in great detail. Do you dive deep? You should! You can find the answers! You can! You just need to ask. Why we don”t have a habit of asking questions? I think it is because we will appear weak, uneducated, or stupid. If that is the reason, it is very sad. Sad because we will never grow if we are not learning, not expanding, and so, please, please ask questions. To yourself first! I wrote a Blog Post about the questions you need to ask yourself daily. You can find it here.

You can never be able to change your circumstances if you are not aware of the ones that you have, (read: being aware of the ones that you are doing and that doesn”t serve you.) It is so simple in life. Take Full Responsibility For Your Life is also a post that is related to this one.

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How creative you are? How much on a scale from 1 to 10 is your creativeness? Do you ever wonder why you are here? Who you are? Where are you now and where you wanna be? Who are your parents? Who are your siblings? What they do in life? What are your concerns? Why you worry? What  you worry about? You are never going to be able find out answers if you don”t ask, right? How can you ask? Who you ask?

I am a big believer of starting from yourself. You are your own best everything. Mother, father, sister, brother, a friend. All the answers are within you already. But in order to know some things, you need to be honest, sincere, and ask yourself specific questions.

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I”ll never forget the day when I had to ask a friend of mine something about the luggages at the airport. I send her over a question, but I wasn”t specific enough, and guess what, was I getting specific answer? Of course, not! You need to be specific, and really dive deep into the questions that you need to find out the answers.

I will give you an example now. Let”s say you are a mentor. And the person that hired you wants to take her life on a next level. What do you do? You ask questions right? But not just a random questions. You ask deep ones. The ones with a why, not just the ones with a yes and no answers.

You ask: “What is your biggest accomplishment?  How did you do that? What it took you to accomplish that? How important that was for you? Why this? Why not something else? You get the point, right?! I hope you do!

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There is so much questions that you can ask and come up to astonishing answers. Isn”t that amazing!? Don”t you wanna know why are the things they are? The only thing that I know is that self education no one can take from you. Listen what the rich people are saying. They are saying that if they go broke today, they will be able to attain riches once again. And why is that? Because they developed the skills, abilities, and they come up to some answers. They cracked the code. We can do it to.