Do you like where you are in life right now? Answer honestly! Because only honesty will set you free. So tell yourself, out loud, “No, i am not happy with my life, because of this and this.” Only then you should be able to change whatever you are not happy about.
The truth is, it can be worse, much worse. Remember always that there is somebody who is praying to be at your place. Because they do, they really do. Somebody is praying to live the life that you are living now, and they would do whatever it takes to be at your place right now. I truly believe that.
Only accepting can move you forward. It is like alcoholic accepting that he has a problem with alcohol. So determine in what segment of your life you are not happy about?! What part of your life you need to improve, and work for it?
Attitude adjustment in life is everything. No one ever in life had no problems. We all go through some challenges in life, the question is, how we are going to look at this challenges. I believe in the one, that God gives us only the things that we can cope with. Only the things that we can handle, nothing more, nothing less. And so, accept the situation that you are in right now, because he knows that you can. And you can!
Identify what you can”t change. and let go of.
If you can”t change some things today, tomorrow, or in a week time, do whatever it takes to change approach to that things, look at things differently, because I once read, that our problems are just our illusions, and I think that is true, to some extent. We like to make things bigger than they really are. We like to complain, make excuses and we love when people feel sorry about us. We feed ourselves by it.
“I am my own biggest critic. Before anyone else has criticized me, I have already criticized myself. But for the rest of my life, I am going to be with me and I don’t want to spend my life with someone who is always critical. So I am going to stop being my own critic. It’s high time that I accept all the great things about me.”
Accepting where you are in life right now, can bring you such a piece of mind, you can live more freely, you would have more energy, you would think more clearly, you would be more relaxed. You want this all positive aspects, admit it?! Don”t you wanna be stress free?! Just STOP thinking stressful thoughts! That”s it!
You need to let go of the wrong reality, in order to make a new, better one.
Noticing what is, is just going to keep you at the place you are in right now. Know that we all make mistakes, every day all throughout the day. And that is ok! We are humans after all. We have brain, mind, feelings, emotions, kids, family, friends, other people, jobs. It is normal to fail sometimes, but only if you admit to yourself that you made mistake, it counts. Say that, next time, you are going to be better, you will, actually, be better. It is O.K. for whatever life you are living right now, just notice what can be improved, and work for it. It is that simple.
Make a plan how you are going to change your reality and stick to it.
Determine what you really want. Not what you should want, not what you can want, but what you really want. First, research how you are going to get it. Find the people that already done those things, and model them. Let them be your mentor. Immerse yourself into researching. Make a plan about everyday actions, but first, as I said, research about people that are already there, and everyday, feed your mind about those things and their lifestyle. You can do it! You definitely can! Work on your self belief as well, because it is crucial in order to change anything in your life. Believing in yourself!
Who knows what miracles
You can achieve
When you believe somehow you will
You will when you believe
“The best way is not to fight it, just go. Don’t be trying all the time to fix things. What you run from only stays with you longer. When you fight something, you only make it stronger.”
― Invisible Monsters Source
Why acceptance is crucial in order to move forward?
Acceptance is the key to be happy now, to be happy all the times, most of the times. That is why acceptance is crucial. Find a way to go down stream, no up stream. Because it is easier to go down stream right, than to struggle and go up stream. There is so much going on, on a daily basis, both in our lives, and in the world, and acceptance is crucial, because we never know what is going to happen next.
How to accept life”s situations?
Light can only shine in the darkness, right? Light only shines at it”s best when it is dark. To accept life”s situations that are hard for us, we can always do by cultivating and strengthening hope, trust and faith that the darkness shall pass and that the light will shine through. It is like day and night. Night doesn”t last forever, right?
Never forget that when everything seems to be falling apart, it actually comes back together, forever and always is like that.
What are some of your life struggles that you are going through right now? And how this community can help you? Tell us in a comments below. Because hey, only when you ask for help, help is already going your way. So you just need to ask, ok?
“I guess the whole world is made up of things coming together and things falling apart,”
― Back When You Were Easier to Love Source