Creating a life you are going to love is one of the most important projects you are ever going to have. Why? Because anything less than that is less important. We must own our lives, emotions that we are feeling, challenges that we face on a daily basis, and responsibility for how we feel, or are going to feel.
Think about it, nobody is responsible for how we feel. Other peoples behaviors should not be an “excuse” for how we choose to react. And vice versa, we are not responsible for someone else’s life, behavior etc.
We choose everything that we do, be or have. In any given moment, we have choice, either to react or respond. Unfortunately, many people choose to react, and that will lead them nowhere, only to more frustration.
We are truly creators of our own lives. Everything that we do and have now, is the sum of the choices that we have taken in our past. So choose it wisely!
First, you need to be clear about the question in the title; “How to create a life I love” and start answering some of the questions:
- Why I want to create a life I love?
- Can I create a life I want in the first place?
- What is life for me?
- What do I truly love about life?
- What would I really love to be, do or have in life?
- If anything is possible what would I love?
- What is one thing I can do today to be closer to the life I love?
It is all about knowing what you want to create, to specifics.
Why specifics? Saying “I need more money” can be a dollar more, but if you say “I want to earn euro 50.000 a month is very specific amount that you want to see on your bank account. Do you understand?
Take a sheet of paper and the pen, and start writing things that you love. What do you love? It can be your pillow, bed, blanket, sleep, hugs, butter, makeup, sales, flowers, sex, kisses, muffins, really anything.
Once you know what you love, all you gotta do is do more of that. And naturally, you are going to live a life you love.
You probably already heard saying:
Do what you love and love what you do.
It can’t be simpler than that, do more of what you love, and love what you do. See perfection and the beauty of imperfection in everything.
To learn more about the ego and how ego can stay on our way to grow in life, watch video below:
Really, if anything is possible, what would you do?
Again, take a piece of paper and pen and start writing what would you love to do, be and have. For every successful something it takes time, persistence, determination and patience.
If you’ve been living your life by default lately and you didn’t care much about improving it, and now you are determined to make a change finally, you need to do those exercises regularly, preferably every day. Why? Because this part is crucial for your success, continue strong for whatever you started.
It is kinda rewiring your brain, from living unfulfilled to very fulfilling life.
I wish you all success!
Maja
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Frau Diller 