Personal Development

Diving Deep

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Diving deep is a questioning everything, to examine something in great detail. Do you dive deep? You should! You can find the answers! You can! You just need to ask. Why we don”t have a habit of asking questions? I think it is because we will appear weak, uneducated, or stupid. If that is the reason, it is very sad. Sad because we will never grow if we are not learning, not expanding, and so, please, please ask questions. To yourself first! I wrote a Blog Post about the questions you need to ask yourself daily. You can find it here.

You can never be able to change your circumstances if you are not aware of the ones that you have, (read: being aware of the ones that you are doing and that doesn”t serve you.) It is so simple in life. Take Full Responsibility For Your Life is also a post that is related to this one.

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How creative you are? How much on a scale from 1 to 10 is your creativeness? Do you ever wonder why you are here? Who you are? Where are you now and where you wanna be? Who are your parents? Who are your siblings? What they do in life? What are your concerns? Why you worry? What  you worry about? You are never going to be able find out answers if you don”t ask, right? How can you ask? Who you ask?

I am a big believer of starting from yourself. You are your own best everything. Mother, father, sister, brother, a friend. All the answers are within you already. But in order to know some things, you need to be honest, sincere, and ask yourself specific questions.

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I”ll never forget the day when I had to ask a friend of mine something about the luggages at the airport. I send her over a question, but I wasn”t specific enough, and guess what, was I getting specific answer? Of course, not! You need to be specific, and really dive deep into the questions that you need to find out the answers.

I will give you an example now. Let”s say you are a mentor. And the person that hired you wants to take her life on a next level. What do you do? You ask questions right? But not just a random questions. You ask deep ones. The ones with a why, not just the ones with a yes and no answers.

You ask: “What is your biggest accomplishment?  How did you do that? What it took you to accomplish that? How important that was for you? Why this? Why not something else? You get the point, right?! I hope you do!

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There is so much questions that you can ask and come up to astonishing answers. Isn”t that amazing!? Don”t you wanna know why are the things they are? The only thing that I know is that self education no one can take from you. Listen what the rich people are saying. They are saying that if they go broke today, they will be able to attain riches once again. And why is that? Because they developed the skills, abilities, and they come up to some answers. They cracked the code. We can do it to.

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My experience at Tony Robbins Seminar

It was incredible. As I am writing this now, feeling so happy, but yet sad, with a tears running down my eyes. I connected myself with myself. I literally tapped into my power within, and that is the seminar”s name: “Unleash the Power Within”.

You are never going to find out how that seminar helped me, how I felt there, and what was all about. That was one of my greatest experiences ever, if not the first.

Was very intense. Four days in a row, mornings until evenings. We talked about everything. Basically how to do and be better. We danced and singed a lot, celebrating life.

You might be listening his speech online for free, and you can understand all of that, but coming on the event such this is very much different. You can feel peoples emotions, your own are coming out. You are getting chills. Nothing is the same anymore. We are living by experiences and you could only bring with yourself memories, not the stuff.

I was writing a lot, because they were talking a lot. I don”t know about you, but I am thinking in quotes 😀 and they were talking such a smart stuff, and that was amazing, I had to write that down, so you are going to need a notebook, your own, not the workbook that you are getting for free, and make sure that you put your name and phone number on it, in case you lost it.

I made a youtube video of the experience. I hope I will inspire you, and you will do the same, book a spot in your nearest event about the UPW. Enjoy..

I will tell you now how I got the ticket. I was browsing Internet one day and saw the add about the seminar in London, Tony Robinns live. Got interested, because that was the chance for me. Opened the link and somebody reached out in a chat box, asking me what type of payments I wanna use. I choosed to pay a 100 pounds monthly, which was 9 months before seminar, just a month before the actual event I payed all my rates. So, you guessed it, the seminar cost 900 pounds. Was very handy, and as was time getting closer, I was getting more excited.

So, don”t worry about the money, they want you there, believe me.

I was a part of the 12.000 people from 66 different countries, it was like a rock concert. I was told this, I didn”t believe, but now I do. The public was very large. People were opening their minds, and they were ready for changes, they were doing something to take their life to the next level. I am so happy and grateful that I could be a part of this event. Life will never be the same.

Please, if you read this far, and you are very interested to attend this life transforming event, please, reach out to me, and I will refer you for the next upcoming event, by doing so, everyone will benefit, and you are going to get a 10% discount.

Please, like this article and subscribe on my site for more if I inspired you to, and triggered you to do the same. I know you are not going to regret. And you know the same.

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Your sincerely,

Maja

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Choose Wonder over Worry

Most of us have two lives. The life we live, and the unlived life within us. Between the two stands Resistance. Definition of Resistance is a refusal to accept or comply with something or ability not to be affected by something. Opposite of that is allow things or people to come to you or make that first step and make a risk. Never stop wondering and go for it. Release this blockages and be open to everything and everybody.

 

Never stop wondering

 

“I DON”T HAVE ENOUGH TIME.”

MEET STRESSED THE FUCK OUT.

One of the biggest frustrations I hear from people is that there”s too much to do, and there”s not enough time. “Not enough time”, of course, is a feeling. A myth! A story that when we buy into it, we run around trying to fit more and more into our schedules and lives. We rush from the next thing to the next thing, without appreciating where we are in this moment. We believe that if we do and accomplish and experience more, we will be happier and healthier and richer and wiser and loved by all. But instead, we”re just stressed the fuck out.

Take a sheet of paper and write down two lines. On a left side things that you would like to do, and on a right side, things that your soul craves, something that you really really want.

 

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“WHY NOT ME?”

MEET ENVY.

I once was the envious seething friend who struggled to be happy for others. When I witnessed others following through on the dreams that were still seeds inside of me, it brought up all kinds of demonic voices in my mind that told me I was not worthy or good enough or moving fast enough. Every morning when I jumped on social media, my story of being so far behind was reinforced by the highlights of others. While it was 9:00 A.M., and I was still in bed, blurry-eyed and yawning, my creative heroes were announcing the movie deal they just got for their book. A couple traveling the world had posted yet another video of their tanned toned bodies, and how they”re making a killing in their careers, which made me want to punch them both in the face. My ex-boyfriend was now engaged and with his fiancée halfway across the world, which could only mean one thing:

I AM A TERRIBLE, AWFUL HUMAN BEING WHO IS NOT CAPABLE OF BIG THINGS. I WILL NEVER AMOUNT TO ANYTHING. I SUCK, I SUCK, I SUCK.

Now, I stop measuring my success by likes and page views, and learned to instead measure it by inner truths expressed. It became less about receiving validation and applause, and more about uncovering whatever in me was ready to come through.

Shine your damn light.

Please be happy about your journey. We need more people to be joyful about their paths, and living in alignment with what feels truth for them.

 

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When you are open about enthusiasm, you will learn two things:

1. Who is truly and deeply an advocate for your success, and

2. Who is truly and deeply threatened by it, and who may even, consciously or unconsciously, try to bring you down.

It is not your responsibility to pull those who fall into the latter category up and out of the crab bucket. You need not be a savior to those who are still finding their way. Only they can do that.

​Jealousy and comparison and envy can devour us, so please do not let how other people feel about you devour you too. I”ve yet to meet someone who hasn”t dealt with some form of envy or comparison. The difference is: those who”ve moved beyond it were able to dismantle the scarcity-driven story in their mind that believed in a world of me versus them. In doing so, they got back to what mattered most: their work, their gifts, and the expression that wants to come through them.

And that”s what”s at stake right now: you best and brightest work. So shine your damn light, and let what you create radiate from the inside out. That”s the best thing you can do for yourself, the world, and those who are ready to receive your work.

To every person who”s fallen into the trap of comparison, remember this: The only person you can measure yourself against is yourself. No two people have the same background, circumstances, desires, values and gifts. When you”re caught up in what they”re doing and how far they”ve come, you”re losing sight of what wants your focus and attention: your own right and true path. Trying to constantly be better can hinder your ability to simply be. What matters is where you were yesterday, last week, last month, last year, and the progress you”ve made since. That is how you get ahead, come alive, and achieve and belong in precisely the way only you know how.

“THEY REJECTED ME…AGAIN.”

MEET DEFEAT.

Think about it: if you were to read the biography of someone”s life, and they experienced a perfect childhood with perfect parents, had perfect looks and were loved by all, and then their work went on to become an overnight success, would their story be very interesting.

I think not.

Interesting is Paulo Coelho being rejected over two hundred times before he went on to publish The Alchemist. It sold 65 million copies, was translated into eighty languages, and set the Guinness World Record for the most translated book by any living author. Imagine if he had given up at rejection 1 or 5 or 10 or 99 or 150 or 199? Sixty-five million people wouldn”t have been touched by his work.

“OH GOD. LOOK AT THEM.”

MEET JUDGMENT.

You cannot judge someone and love yourself at the same time.

Judgment is a mirror. A reflection. It shows you what you”re denying and repressing inside of yourself. It illuminates where you”re self-righteous. It”s a map, pointing you to the place that you”re afraid to accept within. As Carl Jung said, “Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.” What we judge in others wants to be loved and embraced within us. It”s an abandoned part of us calling out, “Hey! Pay attention to me! Notice me! Love me!” But so often we get caught directing our attention outwardly at them, and then we miss out on the wisdom that judgement is trying to deliver to us.

 

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The monk who sold his Ferrari by Robin Sharma

This book is such a gem

 

This book is a huge gem (diamond). I am really fascinated. It”s about the secrets of life and how to keep that balance between personal and professional life. I will surely come to read this book again and again, to buy my own copy, and make sure to underscore the parts that I resonated with, so I can reread it again and remind myself of these secrets and truths again and again when needed. It is really inspiring.

Do you believe success is your destiny? Are you hunger for more: more prestige, more glory and more money? You will never wish you spent more time at the office attaining success and money. You will wish on your deathbed to spent more time with your family and friends in a joyful moment together. I”ve also come to see that success on the outside means nothing unless you also have success within. There is a huge difference between well-being and being well-off.

“Every event has a purpose and every setback its lesson. I have realized that failure, whether of the personal, professional or even spiritual kind, is essential to personal expansion. It brings inner growth and a whole host of psychic rewards. Never regret your past. Rather, embrace it as the teacher that it is. I have learned that self-mastery and the consistent care of one”s mind, body and soul are essential to finding one”s highest self and living the life of one”s dreams. How can you care for others if you cannot even care for yourself? How can you do good if you don’t even feel good? I can’t love you if I cannot love myself.

 

Appreciate yourself

 

Take the first step to shifting your paradigm with these awesome life lessons from The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari. 

 

1. Cultivate Your Mind

The Quality Of Your Life Is Determined By The Quality Of Your Thoughts

2. The Purpose Of Life Is A Life Of Purpose

The Power Of Self-Examination

3. Do The Things You Fear The Most

Self-Mastery Is The DNA Of Life Mastery

4. Live With Discipline

Do The Vow Of Silence

5. Respect Your Time

Have A “Deathbed” Mentality

6. Practice Daily Acts Of Kindness

By Elevating The Lives Of Others, Your Life Reaches Its Highest Dimensions

7. Never Sacrifice Happiness For Achievement

Live In The Now With Your Children’s Childhood

 

The time is now

 

Investing in yourself is the best investment you will ever make. It will not only improve your life, it will improve the lives of all those around you. It is only when you have mastered the art of loving yourself that you can truly love others. It”s only when you have opened your own heart that you can touch the hearts of others. When you feel centered and alive, you are in a much better position to be a better person.

 

A Most Extraordinary Garden

 

Most people live – whether physically, intellectually or morally – in a very restricted circle of their potential being. We all have reservoirs of life to draw upon of which we do not dream.

                                                                                            William James

 

In a fable, the garden is a symbol for the mind. If you care for your mind, if you nurture it and if you cultivate it just like a fertile, rich garden, it will blossom far beyond your expectations. But if you let the weeds take root, lasting peace of mind and deep inner harmony will always elude you. Yet look at the toxic waste that most people put into the fertile garden of their minds every single day: the worries and anxieties, the fretting about the past, the brooding over the future and those self-created fears that wreak havoc within your inner world.

To live life to the fullest, you must stand guard at the gate of your garden and let only the very best information enter. You truly cannot afford the luxury of a negative thought – not even one. The most joyful, dynamic and contented people of this world are no different from you or me in terms of their makeup. We are all flesh and bones. We all come from the same universal source. However, the ones who do more than just exist, the ones who fan the flames of their human potential and truly savor the magical dance of life do different things than those whose lives are ordinary. Foremost among the things that they do is adopt a positive paradigm about their world and all that in it.

There is no such thing as objective reality or “the real world”. There are no absolutes. The face of your greatest enemy might be the face of my finest friend. An event that appears to be a tragedy to one might reveal the seeds of unlimited opportunity to another. What really separates people who are habitually upbeat and optimistic from those who are consistently miserable is how the circumstances of life are interpreted and processed.

 

All is well in your world

 

All success in life, whether material or spiritual, starts with that twelve – pound mass sitting between your shoulders. Or more specifically, with the thoughts that you put into your mind every second of every minute of every day. Your outer world reflects the state of your inner world. By controlling the thoughts that you think and the way you respond to the events of your life, you begin to control your destiny.

There are no mistakes in life, only lessons. There is no such thing as negative experience, only opportunities to grow, learn and advance along the road of self – mastery. From struggle comes strength. Even pain can be a wonderful teacher. To savor the good one you must know the bad!

I suggest that you stop judging events as either positive or negative. Rather, simply experience them, celebrate them and learn from them. Every event offers you lessons. These little lessons fuel your inner and outer growth. Without them, you would be stuck on a plateau. Just think about it in your own life. Most people have grown the most from their most challenging experiences. And if you meet with an outcome you did nor expect and feel a little disappointed, remember that the laws of nature always ensure that when one door closes another opens.

 

Door to paradise

 

I hope you will enjoy reading this content as much as I enjoyed reading this book. That is just a few or words of wisdom, there are much much more to learn. I promise you, you will never regret reading this book, if you are open for these teachings of course. When the student is ready, the teacher will appear!

Please, leave me a comment in a section below if you read this far, I would appreciate that. And please, feel free to like and share in you find it valuable.

 

I gave my best!

Maja!

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Thoughts are things?!

 

Is it really that way? Do we truly attract what we think about and who we are? I know that like attracts like, but do really thoughts and what we think about shapes our reality?

About the how like attracts like… I’ll never forget that day…I’ve been in one relationship that I didn’t enjoy at all. You might think now: “Why you stayed then?!” I don’t know! I guess I’ve seen just the goods in him, and all the bads I tried to forget, not to focus on. Until one day, I had that aha moment, when I realized that we was perfect match. I didn’t love and appreciate myself, and then he came into my life like a perfect manipulator.

 

Thoughts are not facts!

 

Of course I left him straight after the realization, but the question is still here: “Do we really attract who we are and what we think about?”

Please, please, please! If you read this far, let me know what are your thoughts about this in a comment section bellow. ⬇️ Would love to know!

 

I wish you a great day!

Yours sincerely,

Maja