It is much easier than you think. I always wondered why are some people going from relationship to relationship. There are always guys/girls that are coming in their lives, and often times I”ve been alone. No serious relationship, just a guy here or there. Until a day, when I was talking with friend of mine and my sister about that mystery of mine. I told them how am I really worried about when am I going to find a guy.
So we was talking about relationships and how to be happy in it. Soon after we realized how am I having some blocks, not letting anyone in my life. I wasn”t confident at that time and I realized that I didn”t like myself either. Do I need to tell you that I am looking better than ever now. I am affirming myself how I am worthy and beautiful. How it is easy to find a partner, and how everyone wants to love, and to be loved. I was working on my mindset. I was riding a bike, grocery shop, cooking and affirming yourself how I am worthy and deserving to have somebody in my life. Words that you are telling yourself matters. More than you think.
Soon after that conversation I created a meetup, posted it online, and this guy responded with yes, the rest is history. We met for a drink soon after the meetup one day, and continuing to seeing each other.
Let go of the time and place you are going to met your future partner. What is most important is that you get ready for it. You need to be ready for his or her arrival. You need to open yourself up. You need to feel and be happy and open. You need to look good, love yourself for who you are, and loving life. When I say you need to look good, is that you need to dress up to feel good. Clothes that are pleasing to your body, and choose the one that you feel good and confident in.
Really, what are you saying to yourself on a daily basis, moment by moment? And do you really love and accept yourself for who you truly are? Answer this questions now! Do you? You need to love you first. Nobody is going to believe in you if you don”t believe in you first. What are the chances that you don”t appreciate yourself and so, you are expecting from somebody else to accept you. You need to be your own everything first.
I”ll never forget when a friend of mine told me about his criminals that he was doing and admitting to him and myself how he didn”t love and accept himself. Luckily, he is out of the criminal, because now he knows who he is and understands life. People that are committing crimes are the ones who don”t know who they and other people are. That may sound ridiculous to you, and you may wonder what that has to do with attracting your partner, but it is closely related. In order to find a partner for a lifetime, you need to be first your own best partner first.
Put yourself out there. Plan to have a nice and good conversation with everyone. Enjoy yourself and potential partner will show up, unexpectedly, when you least expect. Then, it will be naturally for you, things will just flow. You are not going to turn around, and you will find yourself already in relationship. These are exciting times.
Get ready for his or her arrival. As I already said. I was preparing myself mentally for his arrival. I was repeating affirmations such as: “I am opening myself to the new relationship.” Get ready, dress up, shave your legs. 😀 Seriously! You are going to the world not making yourself ready. Cut your hair, do something, get yourself ready. You will feel better automatically.
People seek partnership, people seek somebody to share their life with, to be heard, they wanna share their victories and failures. Be in a good partnership with yourself first. You need to be listening you first and meeting your needs first. Don”t ever seek for somebody outside to meet your needs. People, guys and girls love somebody who is whole and complete. It is sexy when you are confident. People love to hang around with somebody who is confident, independent and fun. Be first all these things and potential partner will stick to you like a glue.
Be happy. Everyone wants to be around happy people. Happiness is magnetic. It is contagious. It is very easy going to be with someone who is positive, optimistic and sees everything from the bright side.
Know yourself first. I often found that if you wanna love and appreciate others you need to know and respect yourself first. Know who you truly are. Know all your weaknesses and strengths. Know what do you like in a partner. Who he or she needs to be. Know what you could tolerate and the things that you cannot, things that you don”t want in your life under any circumstances.
You need to know you are deserving and you are able to have and keep life partner. To work on attracting your partner makes no sense if you are first not believing you deserve and you can have someone in your life. Everybody deserves that special someone in their life, and so do you.
You will find a partner when you seek a partnership, when you seek for a best friend, when you seek to give other love, attention and understanding. People don”t wanna one who is too attached to them, that feels like being in jail. But in order to achieve that, you need to be in alignment with you. You don”t want somebody who is in neediness all the time, its frustrating.
While you walk around, interact with people, raise your head, give them a smile, truly and honestly, give a smile to the one, anyone, who seems interesting to you. It is practice. Practice to allow anybody to come into your life.
This is not a rocket science, just open yourself up, get ready, and work on your confidence.
I really hope I helped you. I want to hear from you now, what you really liked in this post, and what are the steps that you need to do first in order you attract a partner you will really like?
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Maja!
Frau Diller 