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What Do You Want?

No, seriously what do you really want out of life? If you now don”t know where are you heading, you will get nowhere. Do you realize that 5 years from now you can get there, the question is where? What do you want? Do you wanna build a family? How big? Is it fun on your list? With whom you wanna hang around?

You see, you might don”t know what do you want to make out of yourself in the future, and that is completely fine. In this case, you should challenge yourself, you should “Show up”. Just show up. Go to places that interests you, be with a people that makes you feel better, do some other activities every day than the one you are used to. By doing that, showing up to different places, exposing yourself, you are getting bigger picture, clarity that we all want.

By exposing yourself and showing up, you are going to face with setbacks, don”t let that discourage you. By facing with setbacks your picture becomes clearer. By knowing what we don”t want, we know what we really want.

I don”t know in what stage are you now in your life, but I am sure you have some wishes and priorities.

Maybe you are at the job, and you feel like you are wasting your time pursuing other peoples dreams. What you can do is be aware of this, of your unhappiness, and do something every day. Even small little steps towards the opposite, what might be launch your own business, do the start-up, whatever is your heart desire.

You gotta be honest with yourself. Put on a side doubt, mistrust, question, skepticism, suspicion, uncertainty and wonder. Put these emotions on a side. Be honest with yourself, and decide what do you really want, making sure that you let go of the destructive emotions that I mentioned above.

Plan Your Life

What would you really make happy and fulfilled? Take a piece of paper, put all your desires on it, and do the small little actions every day. You know how they say: “To organize and plan something, you will reach the end of the desired result much quicker.” I am sure, until now, you”ve been in some organization where people didn”t know what they do, and what is their job. That is it! Imagine that mess now being organized, that clarity, knowingness of where and every each of you has do to. Everything goes smoothly.

I gotta say, notebooks that I have makes me feel more organized. I am constantly writing, planning, prioritising things. Makes me feel focused and gives me that sense that I am on a good track. If I have to bring with myself just three things somewhere that I am going, that would definitely be a notebook and a pen. For sure, for sure! Writing down your thoughts it”s like talking with a best psychiatrist in the world.

Take now peace of paper, and write down “What do I really want”, and put somewhere on visible. That will remind you of what are your goals, and don”t forget to do every day some actions towards your goals.

Researches, researches makes wonders. Do the research! Never stop asking yourself! Commit yourself to ask every single day this question: “What do I really want?”. You might not hear the answer today, tomorrow, or in a week, but never give up. Never, because your future self will thank you for. You own that to yourself.

I wanna hear from you now. What are techniques you using to get that clarity? Please, if you have some in your mind, share with people in a comments below. We would appreciate that.

I hope that helped you, as much as helped me, and helps me writing contents like that.

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Together is Better

A little book of Inspiration by Simon Sinek. This book is full of inspirative pictures, illustrative pictures that goes with text, and we all know that picture is worth a thousand words.

You know for the saying: “Show, don’t tell!”? Show, don’t tell is a technique used in various kinds of texts to allow the reader to experience the story through action, words, thoughts, senses, and feelings rather than through the author’s exposition, summarization, and description.

If you don’t know who is Simon Sinek here https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qp0HIF3SfI4 is a speech that he gave that has over 9,000,000 views. How crazy is that?

He is also a bestselling author of Start with Why and Leaders eat Last.

Be a leader, not a boss

Most of us live our lives by accident – we live as it happens. Fulfillment comes when we live our lives on purpose.

If you say your job is something you “don’t plan on doing forever,”, then why are you doing it now?

Leadership is not about being in charge. Leadership is about taking care of those in your charge.

“There”s only one way to avoid criticism: do nothing, say nothing, and be nothing.” – Aristotle

Leadership is not a rank of position to be attained. Leadership is a service to be given.

Under poor leaders we feel like we work for the company. With good leaders we feel like we work for each other.

We can start a revolution when we know what we stand against. To create a change that lasts, we need to know what we stand for.

A vision is like a dream – it will disappear unless we do something with it. Do something big or do something small. But stop wondering and go on an adventure.

Visualize desired outcome

That idea is so fantastic. Stop talking about it and do it.

Genius is in the idea. Impact comes from action.

Or maybe, if you have the right people with you, they will give you the courage to keep going.

Pick One: Go Alone or Go Together

It”s all fine and good to imagine what life would be like somewhere else. It takes some courage to leave and go somewhere new. To head out to the great unknown. But what happens if upon taking the first step, something goes wrong? Maybe it was a bad idea to leave in the first place? Maybe it”s best to turn back and stay put? After all, the devil you know is better than the devil you don’t.

It doesn’t matter when we start. It doesn’t matter where we start. All that matters is that we start.

What good is having a belly if there”s no fire in it? Wake up, drink your passion. Light a match and get to work!

We achieve more when we chase the dream instead of the competition.

Safe is good for sidewalks and swimming pools. Life requires risk if we are to get anywhere.

Leaders give us the chance to try and fail, then give us another chance to try and succeed.

Give yourself a second chance

Find a Vision

There are two ways to go on a journey – walk away from something or go towards something. But what if you don’t know where to go? “Find a job you love”, we”re told. “Find your passion and do that”, they say. All good advice and perfectly useless.

If we knew that, we wouldn’t feel the way we do now. Plus, we can spend a lifetime trying to answer that question….

…or we can find someone who already has an answer, as our three friends will soon discover.

Discontent can easily drive us to walk away. But only with a clear vision, no matter from where or from whom it comes, can we find an inspiration to set ourselves on a journey to go towards something greater.

When we say out loud what we don’t know, it increases the likelihood that someone who does know will offer help.

Innovators are the ones whose dreams are clearer than the reality that tells them they”re crazy.

The best way to find out if it will work is to do it.

Always plan for the fact that no plan ever goes according to plan.

If the challenge we face doesn’t scare us, then it”s probably not that important.

When we are closed to ideas, what we hear is criticism. When we are open to criticism, what we get is advice.

Bad leaders care about who is right. Good leaders care about what is right.

Don’t complain, contribute.

Persevere

Life is difficult and dangerous. Anyone who would attempt to do it alone is simply mad. We know to always do difficult things with a buddy. So if the journey of life is to be filled with setbacks and disappointments, with confusion and uncertainty, it makes sense that we should trust others to join us on the journey.

As individuals, we”re useless. We can’t lift heavy weight and we can’t solve complex problems. But together?

Together we are remarkable.

Together is better book

Bad teams work in the same place. Good teams work together.

The ability of a group of people to do remarkable things hinges on how well those people can pull together as a team.

You can’t do it alone. So don’t pretend you can.

Together is better.

A team is not a group of people who work together. A team is a group of people who trust each other.

A good leader doesn’t only inspire us to have confidence in what they can do. A great leader inspires us to have confidence in what we can do.

Success is when reality looks like what”s in our imagination.

Excitement comes from the achievement. Fulfillment comes from the journey that got you there.

Temptation

What happens if we succeed, if we find the thing we”re looking for? That perfect place. A place we feel safe. A place we feel trusted and trusting. A place we find happiness and wealth beyond our imagination. But what about all the people we left behind?

There are so much wisdom in these words. Book is like a book for kids. Every sentence is associated with picture. Easy to understand. All that book promotes here is that togetherness that feels much better that going through something alone. It is good to have in your own library that book, just to remind you of how to work together is mush better.

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Together is better.

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Be Your Potential

Be Your Potential

You already have everything you need. You just need to know how to use it!

CONTENTS

Introduction: What It Means To Live To Your True Potential

  1. Something has to change and Now Is The Time To Do It
  2. The Power Of Focus
  3. Stepping Up
  4. Time To Let Go
  5. Jour Journey Has Just Begun
  6. The End and the Beginning Again

I”m pretty sure that you opened up this article because You”re not quite happy with your life in some way, and you want to be living to your true potential. Maybe you “re fed up with having the same unfulfilling relationships, or maybe you don’t have the abundance in life that you truly feel you deserve. Perhaps you lack self – worth or confidence, or want to get your health back on track.

Be Confident

The key is, whatever you think you are, you are always more than that and you are able to achieve all that you desire, no matter what obstacles you think are in your way. This is the deeper truth that many have forgotten, and now is the time to not only re.remember this universal truth, but to be it and actualize it fully.

Nothing can stop us but ourselves.

This is about you as an individual. Life is meant to be good for you. Life is really meant to get you what you want, to have all the learning and the most amazing experiences, to have all that financial abundance, to have perfect health in every way and to have the career of your dreams.

There is not such thing as failure until you decide you have failed and you stop going for your dreams.

​By being present in this moment, your world can change; you have everything you need within you and you can achieve the inner peace and love you crave. In fact, there is nothing to search for externally – It”s all within you.

You may have beliefs about yourself, perhaps feeling “not good enough” or “not worthy”. Or you may have been taught the self – restricting beliefs that “money doesn’t grow on trees” or “you”ve got to struggle to get what you want – no pain, no gain”. These mindsets, beliefs and attitudes were imprinted on you when you were a young child and have continued to be part of your mindset all the way through your adult life, and now those beliefs have set a structure in getting those results. Or maybe your beliefs developed after a series of “failures” or disappointments. Either way, that”s all going to change.

Believe in Yourself

Life is good for you if you choose it to be.

You cannot change the past but you know that you are the only person creating the present.

It goes back to cause and effect. It sounds strange, but think about it: if your life isn’t the way that you want it right now – no matter what area of your life it is – it means you”re just an effect of your situation.

You become an effect of everything you are going through, by saying, “Well, it”s not my fault, It”s this persons fault”, or “It”s my boss”s fault”, or “It was the way that teacher bullied me”, or “It was my father”s fault”, or “my mother”s fault. Or even, “It”s my ill health” or “this dis – ease” or “dis – order that has caused me to have bad health”. Unfortunately, those excuses are giving you reason to maintain your mindset and giving you permission to continue with your negative behaviors. If I”m pushing some of your buttons, that”s good. Stay with me.

When we make excuses, we are playing the blame game. We are powerful when we blame people or things for our situation because we believe that they are outside your control. In order to move forward, we must accept that it doesn’t matter who was at fault or to blame. By blaming we are reducing our control over the situation, since to move past it we need the person responsible to correct their mistake.

Take the opportunity right now to take responsibility for your cause and effect.

All your past experiences have led you up to this pinnacle of your life when everything has to change and will change. All of those past residual behaviors are continuing to produce the effects and the results right now, and will continue to produce them in the future if you carry on the same way.

Own your life

This is your reality, no one else”s.

You have a choice to make, and It”s a big one. You can choose now to take responsibility, or you can choose to live the life you”ve already got – being simply an effect of life.

Let life be a product of you.

I”ve taken responsibility for everything I”ve done in the last ten years and what I do now. No matter what is in my life, I take responsibility for it. If someone is behaving badly towards me in a friendship or relationship, I take responsibility for that. I have allowed that person into my life, and I have to choose to keep them in my life or cut them out, whether they are family or friends. It sounds quite harsh, but you”ve got to look after your own interests, your own well being, and the people in your life should be those who only want the best for you. You”ve got to be healthy if you want to be your true potential.

We are made of energy, and we attract those who are similar energy to us.

So you have to take responsibility now. Take responsibility for every aspect of your life and I can guarantee it will be so empowering that it will change your day, every day. You will feel happier and happier with each moment in the knowledge that you can choose to have the life you deserve.

The mind can’t distinguish between what is imagined and what is real.

Your mind is powerful, but it needs to be guided and you are the guide. To achieve the life you desire, inwardly and outwardly, you must hold your desires firmly in your mind. Due to the mind – body connection, your mind causes your body to fall in sync with your desires, too. In other words, your unconscious mind can’t tell the difference between what is imagined and what is real.

Imagine positive outcome

I invite you now to take a full responsibility for your life and stop complaining about your certain situation. Give best of yourself to achieve your goals, no matter what they are.

If you read this far, please leave a comment below about this text and does something triggered you here. I know, there is so much to learn in this life. If you open yourself enough, and say; “I don’t know nothing, but willing to learn”, you will succeed.

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Wish you every success!

Maja!