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How To Shift Your Paradigm

Take an honest look at your life. We tend to lie ourselves. Are you really living how you wanna live? Do you like what you see? Are you behaving how you wanna behave? Do you like who you are?

Paradigms are generally defined as a framework that has unwritten rules and that directs actions. A paradigm shift occurs when one paradigm loses its influence and another takes over. The concept defines paradigm and paradigm shift and explains how it can relate to company strategies and industry cycles. Paradigms are set of ideas that we have around everything. It is the way how we eat, sleep, work, study, read, having fun, do the household things. Good news is, paradigms can be changed, you just need to realize what didn”t serve you, and let go of the way that you was doing, and implement some new and productive strategies. 

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It is the way how you think, how you talk, how you breathe, how you walk.. You are programmed to earn that amount of money. You are programmed to date this kind of man/woman. You are programmed to do this kind of work. You don”t know for any better or different. Realize that now, know it is possible, you deserve it, and take daily baby step actions towards this better goals.

Our environments are also programming us. Your parents programmed you. What are the cases that you are living same or a similar life now as your parents used to live. How you can change that? Think how would it be like if you had a parents that were nice, happy, caring, full of trust.

Here is exercise that I highly recommend:

Step One: Write down one thing – that goal, that dream, that challenge that you have not yet resolved in your life. The subconscious mind thrives on detail, so describe it to yourself as vividly as you can.
Step Two: Write down every association that you connect to this thing: everything you think about it, good and bad, everything that the thought of it brings to your mind.
One approach I have found extremely effective is to “map” it in much the same way writers come up with plot concepts. Draw a circle around the words or sentence you came up with in Step One. Then, in the space around that circle, write down your associations as they come to you, encircling each one and connecting it with a line to the original encircled goal. When you feel like you’ve come up with a substantial number of associations, take a good look at what your mind has shown you. You’re looking at your paradigms.
Step Three: It’s time to address your paradigms and ask “why?” I suggest that you zero in on a few of the most powerful paradigms, the ones that have the biggest negative impact. Ask yourself, “Why do I think this? Where does it come from? Where did I get such an idea?” Keep on digging until you’ve exhausted every possible scenario. And finally, now that you know what your paradigm is on any given topic, create an affirmation that will assist you in re-programming your mind, something that is the opposite of your paradigm. For example, if your paradigm is you’ll never earn a lot of money, your affirmation might be: I am so happy and grateful now that money comes to me on a continual basis through multiple sources. I am a magnet to money; I now have all that I want. Write your affirmation on a 3×5 card and repeat it daily, as many times as possible. In time, you’ll begin to notice yourself thinking and acting in a different way. And, just when you think you’ve got it, it will be time to work on another paradigm!

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A paradigm is a standard, perspective, or set of ideas. A paradigm is a way of looking at something. The word paradigm comes up a lot in the academic, scientific, and business worlds. A new paradigm in business could mean a new way of reaching customers and making money.

So, the new way. What are the old ways of something that you was doing and you know it didn”t or doesn”t serve you? Try different approach to something. Do the different way combing your hair. Instead of going to the kitchen and making yourself some coffee upon waking up, you can read a book after having some big glass of lemonade and then having coffee along with your breakfast. That is just one of the examples.

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Tell me in the comments below what you can do differently today or tomorrow, at your job, next job interview or a family gathering? What you can do differently in order to get some better and new results?

Life is not just a set of same old actions, people or destinations. Dare to do some things differently today and see how easy and exciting is to get some new and better results.

Do the exercise today as well about shifting your paradigm. In this exercise you will realize how same old actions led you to get same old results. You need to channge something in order something to be changed.

Smart and wise old man Einstein once said: “The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results.”

As I said, everything is easy, but only if you are aware of the things that doesn”t serve you. Life is a set uf the ups and downs, and nothing is wrong with that, you just need to realize what led you down and change it. There is no such thing as something for nothing. You need to work for it.

First thing is this exercise above that I mentioned. It is very easy, but you need to be honest with yourself.

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I wish you every success!

Sincerely, Maja!

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