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How to be fearless in everyday life

Being fearless, is it possible? Definitely yes, but that doesn’t mean the absence of fear, not at all. Is there any person being without fears for the rest of their lives? I think not. Why? Because this world is ever changing, there is something going on constantly. People come and go, opportunities show up, social media, messages, calls… You can’t be without fear, but fear less, that you certainly can.

We need to understand fear, and from where it comes. We need to be able to feel it, acknowledge it, dissect it.

Why I felt this way right now?

Where this fear came from?

What does it telling me?

What should I do with this fear?

Should I proceed and forget about it or face it?

What is the root of my fear?

Did I have an early failure that has stuck with me?

โ€œNo one but you is allowed to dictate what youโ€™re worth.โ€

There is a great book if you want to read called: “Feel the fear and do it anyway”. It is one of the best books on fear and how to tackle it. Read my old Blog post about feeling the fear and do it anyway.

Being fearless is all about taking that step forward despite of the feeling fear. There is a great video also with Will Smith and how he had a big fear challenge for him. Watch it here:

What are you afraid of the most? It is most likely that if you face that thing you are afraid of, you will grow exponentially.

People feel fear for all kinds of stuff. Fear of abandonment, fear of not succeeding in life, fear of not being good enough, fear of looking stupid, fear of disappoint others.

fear can be driver too. It can drive you to earn more, if you fear poverty. It can drive you to find a partner, if you fear loneliness. What do you fear the most? To what extent you feel the fear? Does it motivates you or drain your energy?

  1. Feel the fear but do it anyway
  2. Stare at fearless people
  3. Be objective
  4. Be willing to look stupid
  5. Adopt a mindset of gratitude
  6. Seek out teachers
  7. Share
  8. Embrace struggle
  9. Read
  10. Use visualization

What is your way to fight the fear and be fearless, taking action despite of fear?

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How to create a life I love

Creating a life you are going to love is one of the most important projects you are ever going to have. Why? Because anything less than that is less important. We must own our lives, emotions that we are feeling, challenges that we face on a daily basis, and responsibility for how we feel, or are going to feel.

Think about it, nobody is responsible for how we feel. Other peoples behaviors should not be an “excuse” for how we choose to react. And vice versa, we are not responsible for someone else’s life, behavior etc.

We choose everything that we do, be or have. In any given moment, we have choice, either to react or respond. Unfortunately, many people choose to react, and that will lead them nowhere, only to more frustration.

We are truly creators of our own lives. Everything that we do and have now, is the sum of the choices that we have taken in our past. So choose it wisely!

First, you need to be clear about the question in the title; “How to create a life I love” and start answering some of the questions:

  1. Why I want to create a life I love?
  2. Can I create a life I want in the first place?
  3. What is life for me?
  4. What do I truly love about life?
  5. What would I really love to be, do or have in life?
  6. If anything is possible what would I love?
  7. What is one thing I can do today to be closer to the life I love?

It is all about knowing what you want to create, to specifics.

Why specifics? Saying “I need more money” can be a dollar more, but if you say “I want to earn euro 50.000 a month is very specific amount that you want to see on your bank account. Do you understand?

Take a sheet of paper and the pen, and start writing things that you love. What do you love? It can be your pillow, bed, blanket, sleep, hugs, butter, makeup, sales, flowers, sex, kisses, muffins, really anything.

Once you know what you love, all you gotta do is do more of that. And naturally, you are going to live a life you love.

You probably already heard saying:

Do what you love and love what you do.

It can’t be simpler than that, do more of what you love, and love what you do. See perfection and the beauty of imperfection in everything.

To learn more about the ego and how ego can stay on our way to grow in life, watch video below:

Really, if anything is possible, what would you do?

Again, take a piece of paper and pen and start writing what would you love to do, be and have. For every successful something it takes time, persistence, determination and patience.

If you’ve been living your life by default lately and you didn’t care much about improving it, and now you are determined to make a change finally, you need to do those exercises regularly, preferably every day. Why? Because this part is crucial for your success, continue strong for whatever you started.

It is kinda rewiring your brain, from living unfulfilled to very fulfilling life.

I wish you all success!

Maja

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How to live healthily

Healthy living is something that you should put a thought into, meaning second guessing everything that you do. For example; you have on the table mix salad and the burger and the fries, ask yourself: “Which one should I really take?” “Which one will I benefit from?” and so on and so on.

Watch this short 20 minute video about our health and what we should avoid or more implement in our every day life. Videos can truly change the way we see things, and our health should be our number one priority.

You are what you eat!

Something like this. You are what you eat or you are what you read, watch, consume…

Live healthily is not expensive how some people think, actually it is for FREE, or at least with the small fee. ๐Ÿ˜€ Let me explain:

  1. Water is for free in some countries. And fresh, clean water is crucial for health and longevity, it flushes your toxins, helps to boost your energy, your system works in harmony drinking plenty of water, helps your skin, and many more
  2. Oxygen. With no oxygen we would not be alive. We breathe all the time to survive, whether we are consciously of it or not. Many people breathe very shallow, but those that really focus on the breathing can be very calming and soothing for your mind and body.
  3. Foods that are fresh and colorful are like a fuel to your body. And really, if you put in your body low quality fuel, you are going to get low quality body energy, and you might get a disease only by consuming low quality foods, full of sugar and the fats.

Here I am leaving for you mine YT video about hot to live healthy and how health is FREE. Enjoy watching and learning.

The other day I watched another health related video that I loved so much, and as I was watching, I took the notes that I am going to share with you. Here they are:

1. Change the foods you eat – eat smarter, high quality foods

2. Movement and exercise – life is movement and so does your body. Move your body as much as you can.

3. Sleep – Sleep maximum 8 hours a day and in the afternoon take 20 minute power nap.

4. Meditation – Schedule some time to relax.

5. Ask right questions – Ask yourself questions like: “How to have more energy?”

6. Only healthy oils like olive oil – No vegetable oil. Coconut and avocado oils are fine.

7. Reduce stress – Breathe consciously and slow down.

8. Fatty fish, grass fed beef, eggs

9. Know thyself, self asses

10. Take 100% responsibility for your life

What do you do for your health and well being on a daily, weekly, monthly basis? Because it is not about doing only 3 things, it is about doing it all but in a balanced kind of way.

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Yours sincerely,

Maja.

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What do you want to do

There is nothing on this planet that we need to be doing, only the things that we want to do. I like to say that we need to be doing 4 things: eat, drink, poop, and eventually die, anything in between are our choices what we want to do, think it’s the right thing to do.
So you don’t need to stay as a florist if you don’t want to anymore. You choose struggle and misery, not the other way around. You choose to stay in destructive relationship, it was your choice to stay. Does it have to stay forever like that? Of course, not. You can choose make changes, forever and always.
Remember that there are no such things as you must do them, only your choice to do them.
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How to achieve your personal greatness (easy)

For every and each one of us, greatness means different things. For some greatness is great wealth, while for some, greatness is big happy family. What is personal greatness for you?

Greatness is a concept of a state of superiority affecting a person or object in a particular place or area. Greatness can also be attributed to individuals who possess a natural ability to be better than all others.

To achieve personal greatness, you must be great in all your life segments, everything has to align beautifully, work easily.

You can start by making a list of the things you want to improve in your life, and list of the things you don’t wanna be doing, but you know you must do it, in order your life to improve.

Greatness comes by doing a few small and smart things each and every day. Comes from taking little steps, consistently. Comes from a making a few small chips against everything in your professional and personal life that is ordinary, so that a day eventually arrives when all that’s left is The Extraordinary. Robin S. Sharma Source

Greatness can be really everything. It can be about how many lives you touched and influenced other peoples lives. It can be about how many times you faced the obstacles, but you kept on going anyways. Really, what is greatness for you?

Personal greatness is within you. You don’t need to look for it, you just need to embrace it. We are all born with greatness, and we are all great one way or another.

To achieve greatness in your life, just be great. You are not becoming someone or something, you are being that, so just BE great in everything that you do, and greatness should follow you, people are going to perceive you as such.

  • Live life to the fullest
  • Always strive for more
  • Be good and do good

Don’t look back. You are not going that way.

Start asking a lot of questions every day. Questions like: “What can I do today to make myself feeling a little bit better?”

To read more about “2 questions you need to ask yourself daily”, read HERE.

You ask question, you get answer. There will be no answer if you don’t ask questions. Ask yourself daily, people around you, Google, or even God, and you must get answer, sooner or later.

Questions can be like:

  1. Why
  2. Who
  3. When
  4. Where
  5. What
  6. How

Personal greatness

To achieve personal greatness I think is all about trial and error. Meaning, you need to try different things to find one that works for you, and lot of research.

There is article that I found for you which covers up 20 books for those that are trying to develop themselves. The list is truly amazing. Click the link HERE and find out what are the books.

Conclusion in bullet points:

  • Study successful people
  • Find what works best for you
  • Try different things
  • Read a lot
  • Ask questions
  • Be great NOW at everything you do
  • Be consistent in all that

That is it for you guys. What do you think about personal greatness and how to find it and embrace it? What are some of your takeaways from this article that opened your eyes?