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What do you want to do

There is nothing on this planet that we need to be doing, only the things that we want to do. I like to say that we need to be doing 4 things: eat, drink, poop, and eventually die, anything in between are our choices what we want to do, think it’s the right thing to do.
So you don’t need to stay as a florist if you don’t want to anymore. You choose struggle and misery, not the other way around. You choose to stay in destructive relationship, it was your choice to stay. Does it have to stay forever like that? Of course, not. You can choose make changes, forever and always.
Remember that there are no such things as you must do them, only your choice to do them.
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Seeing perfection in everything

What is perfect for you? How do you see the things that are not seemingly perfect? Can something be amazingly perfect? What about all the things? Some of them?

We live in the world of the social media, and people post things that are seemingly perfect. Would you post a picture of yourself just coming out of bed, hair all around, make-up under your eyes, wrinkles on your face? Of course you wouldn’t! Because we are not looking presentable, and that is O.K. No one would do that!

Don’t take things too seriously or personally.

People are feeling bad for themselves, because they take things too seriously.

We don’t post things because we wan’t to show you how we are prettier than you, but because we feel good in our own skin, and we wan’t to show the world, inspire one another. Do you feel me here?

Not everybody has that intention, and that is also O.K. People have all sorts of intentions doing same things. Again, do not take things seriously. People in it’s core don’t wanna hurt you intentionally. They are in pain!

Seeing perfection in everything.

Let yourself be inspired by what you see.

There is perfection in feeling tired, being dirty, broke, single, exhausted…

You are tired for the reason, for example. Maybe you worked hard, and now you are feeling tired but satisfied. Being tired is a perfect state to go to have a rest. Aren’t you happy knowing that you are going to bed, have a good night sleep, cozy up in a warm and clean sheets. Is there any better feeling than being totally exhausted and going to bed? I don’t think so. You see, perfection in even being exhausted. Train yourself to see that.

Apply that to whatever you want, whatever is your situation. In being broke (studying finances), being single (leveling yourself up), dirty (reason more to enjoy shower)…

All is perfect as it is!

We are the beings of the movement.

We strive, grow and learn doing things, going places, working towards something.

Determine what is not working in your life but you want to improve upon. Make a list of the things you want to make it work in your favor. And then study it. Study it deeply! And start implementing learned as you go.

There was a saying from Jim Rohn, I think. It goes something like this: “If you study your chosen field for 5 years, only an hour a day, in 5 years you can become national expert in it.”

I believe that to be true, because the more I study my chosen fields, the more people come to me for an advice.

Have you heard of something called “divine order”?

The Divine Order was the belief that everything in the universe has a specific place and rank in order of their perceived importance and “spiritual” nature.

Everything is in it’s perfect order, everything.

We can’t create everything perfect tomorrow. For what we want to achieve, it takes time, and we have all the time in the world. Do you believe you have a time? I do! All the time in the world.

Beauty is in the eyes of beholder.
Beauty is in the eyes of beholder.

You are not alone in your troubles.

This sentence I saw when I was truly desperate and I needed change in my life.

Do you believe in signs? Watch this video where I talk about the signs that I had received.

Seeing perfection in everything doesn’t necessarily mean that we don’t wanna change, or that we accept for what really is, no. Being satisfied but eager for more, is the key. Be grateful for what it is, but wanting more. Life causes us to want.

Let’s say that you are going through some challenges in life at this moment. You have people challenges. With one particular woman or a man you had fight. How would you feel? Angry? Disappointed? Of course you would!

Why is that a good thing? Because all the things that we call negative or unwanted in our lives, causes us to want. You can’t experience high in it’s fullest if you weren’t been down. You can’t experience light in it’fullest, if you didn’t experience darkness.

Conclusion

Everything is as it supposed to be. I probably said that already few times, but it is. We strive for perfection, but that is far from the truth. Nothing is perfect in this world, not at the same time. There will always be something to work towards to.

People want to have that sense of accomplishment, and so they work so hard to make house clean, kids fed, husband satisfied, striving career… Can it all be perfect at the same time? No it can’t! And never will be.

We need to practice seeing perfection in everything. Do you really want to practice that? If not, what do you want to practice towards to?

Once you see something that you judge. Let’s say you judged your family member. Stop for a second, and ask yourself. Can she or him be the way I wan’t them to be? Of course not! And so, train yourself to see perfection in them. See him or her how they have a nice hair, they walk like a million dollar, or they have a beautiful smile. These are just examples.

The more you are going to practice seeing in them something positive, you are going to notice more and more positive stuff from them. Isn’t that fascinating?

I was practicing that with people I worked with. They all had different eating habits than me, they were gossiping, talking about fashion and makeup… I don’t talk about these things, but I find that very interesting in them to listen, and it was fun. Now when I think about them, I think how amazing those girls were, and they still are.

We can’t all be the same. Life is not created for parading people the same way, dressed the same, talk the same, no no.

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Maja

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How to build momentum

To build new better momentum, you can do that at any given time.

Do you know what is actually momentum? When you wake up in the morning, you are starting momentum. Now, the question is which one? What momentum are you going to build?

After lunch, once you are full, and when you are about to go to work on something, you are building new momentum. Again, where is your focus? What momentum are you going to build? What do you wanna create for yourself? How you wanna feel?

Momentum is something that I am working on, a lot lately. Now, I don”t have a tiny fraction of the doubt, that I can create the life I want, and so, I am working harder than ever to build momentum I really want to live.

Think of the train. Train is at the train station and is heading London, for example. It starts to slowly build up, and then it speeds up. That is building momentum. A train is heading towards London.

Reality check

Now, what do you have to do, in order to stop this momentum? You need to arrive at London station, in order to stop that momentum, or if necessary, stop at any other station before London, if it”s really needed, or you want to get out. That is how you stop momentum. You are just starting to slow down, once you decide you want to stop.

Throughout human history, in any great endeavour requiring the common effort of many nations and men and women everywhere, we have learned – it is only through seriousness of purpose and persistence that we ultimately carry the day. We might liken it to riding a bicycle. You stay upright and move forward so long as you keep up the momentum. Ban Ki-moon
Read more at https://www.brainyquote.com/topics/momentum-quotes

I will never forget when I was very stressful the other day, running through the house like headless chicken. I was in momentum, the bad one. At the point that I couldn”t handle anymore, because it was not healthy place to be. I just stopped whatever I was doing, and then I went to the bed. I stopped momentum. I relaxed.

Go to bed if you find yourself in a negative spiral. Do whatever it takes to calm yourself down, and once refreshed, from that point on, you can start building completely different, better momentum. The one that you really want to build.

Throw amazing momentum.

Do the reality check often.

Meaning, every day, just ask yourself: “How do I really feel?”, and if you feel down, just do the reality check. Ask yourself: “Why am I feeling down?” “What triggered that?” “And how can I make myself feeling even better?”

If you do this often, reality checks, it is going to be easier for you to stop momentum that is not at the high speed, or it”s just starting to build up. Do you know what I mean by that?

It is much easier to stop the momentum if it”s not at the high speed, but is very slow. So do the reality check often, so you can easily switch.

People with momentum can get so much done. Momentum is easy to lose and almost impossible to fake. Shaun King
Read more at https://www.brainyquote.com/topics/momentum-quotes

Have you ever heard business people, those that sell online something, or even athletics how momentum in their lives is starting to build up?

They work for years on some project, athletics trained for months on something… Nobody had a results at the first, but once the ball was starting to roll, it got bigger and bigger.

Those sales were coming in, coach was getting more and more clients, you got more views on your videos…etc.

This is normal, and this is also called “The compound effect”.

No gimmicks. No Hyperbole. No Magic Bullet. The Compound Effect is based on the principle that decisions shape your destiny. Little, everyday decisions will either take you to the life you desire or to disaster by default. Darren Hardy, publisher of Success Magazine , presents The Compound Effect , a distillation of the fundamental principles that have guided the most phenomenal achievements in business, relationships, and beyond. This easy-to-use, step-by-step operating system allows you to multiply your success, chart your progress, and achieve any desire. If you’re serious about living an extraordinary life, use the power of The Compound Effect to create the success you want. Source

Albert Einstein is reputed to have said, ‘Compound interest is the eighth wonder of the world. He who understands it, earns it; he who doesn’t, pays it.Source

Conclusion:

To build momentum, the one that you want, you must start, start small. Start at something! And if you go with a wrong track, stop that wrong track once you realize it, actually immediately, have a rest, and from that point on, build new, better momentum. Actually always have your goal in mind, and I like to say: “Die trying!”

Sincerely,

Maja.

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How to trust the universe

Every time you struggle with trusting somebody, or trusting God, Universe, whatever, you should first ask yourself: “Do I trust me?”

And that should be your number one question that you need to ask yourself first. “Do I trust me?”

If anything you want to achieve in life, you need to first become it, and then just BE it. It is that simple!!!

Here is amazing article from the Deepak Chopra about 9 tips to release control and trust the Universe.

It”s all about emotions.

Your emotions are your guidance system. If you feel bad, that just means you are not trusting it. If you feel good, you have belief in it, and you are leaning towards it. It is like a magnet!

Wishing for something, but not believing in it, you are never going to get it. Do you now understand the importance of trusting, having faith and belief? It is huge!

Every action that you take, will lead you towards where you have to end up. So why bother?! Make sure to take massive, and from the point of belief action.

I singed now out loud the song with Mariah Carey and Whitney Houston that I love so much. It is about the belief in yourself, belief in God, belief in the Universe, belief that you deserve all the good that life has to offer. By the way, this is one of my favorite affirmations.

“I am worthy of all the good that life has to offer.”

Here is the song that I highly recommend you listen on a daily basis. It is so powerful.

How to surrender to the Universe.

Have you heard a story of the Oprah Winfrey, when she wanted to play a role in the movie “Color Purple”? I think that’s what it was called.

She wanted to be an actress in this movie so badly, and she was doing everything necessary for her to play in the movie.

Basically, she came to the point when nothing seemed to work, and she gave up. She just stopped doing the things, and at that time, her famous song to sing was “I surrender all”.

After some time, maybe even the same day, she received the call from the producer, asking her to come to play in the movie. She was stunned! Isn”t that fascinating? The thing came to her, when she “Let go”.

We don”t know what is going to happen in the next 5 minutes, when we surrender all. We basically let go, and let God!

Here is her amazing story about how to surrender and let go. I like to come to this story once in a while, just to strengthen my belief in the universe:

Trust the universe and go with the flow.

This morning, I woke up at 3 AM with a crazy idea, that we are here only passengers. We are only passing through this life, and that we are only tiny dots in this vast Universe.

It kinda reduced my ego a lot, knowing that nobody is even gonna remember me in a 100 years time.

Laying down in the dark, in the middle of the night, seeing nothing but the dark, and the room that you are in, you came to realization what life truly is.

It is such a fragile thing. You never know what is gonna happen in a 5 minutes time.

So, to trust the Universe, know that you are so loved to be a part of this experience called life. That you have some purpose and meaning to fulfill.

Before you were born, there was the whole world that existed, a history so rich, and look in what we evolved now. Then you happened, for some reason and purpose, because Universe needed you to help other people.

We all feed off each other.

We are only passing through.

Every time you complain, you are not trusting it. When you say it”s hard, you are not believing in it. Every time you are not feeling good, you don”t believe in the process. Know that everything worthwhile takes time, and it is a process.

Meditation.

Meditation can make you aware of your thought. It can shift you in the moment NOW. You hear your breathing, you feel your heart pumping, and these are only two things in the many how you can trust the Universe. Because if you feel only these two things now, there is no tomorrow to worry, and there is no yesterday to blame. I really hope you understand.

You can”t just lay down.

We are the beings of the movement. You can”t expect to trust the Universe, and laying down on the beach. Don”t get me wrong, relaxing is a good thing, but doing nothing, is not going to get you where you want to be. You need to work for it!

What you put in, comes back to you. It is the law!

To sum it all up: The best way to trust the universe is to learn to trust yourself. Rather than just indiscriminately repeating the mantra “let go,” get curious about what specifically is preventing you from stepping up. And then let go of that specific thought, belief, assumption or whatever it is. Source

So do you believe in yourself that you are going to make this thing work, whatever that is? Do you often times disappoint yourself and you not follow through?

Answers to these questions will show you how much you trust yourself that you are going to follow through.

Actually pray.

Know that Universe has your back. You are here for the reason and purpose, and be grateful about that. You don’t need to know all the answers now. Just promise me, don”t stop asking for more.

Prayers are powerful. It is like letting go, and letting God. You are taking burden off off your back, and by praying, you are actually saying: “I am ready for more!”

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How To Stop Self Pity

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Why it is that we self pity ourselves? Who are we to say we are in unwanted situation? What that even means? There is no positive or negative, only thinking makes it so!

Self pity is coming from thinking small

What do you guys think? There is amazing book about “The magic of thinking big:”

Who are you to think that you are in unwanted situation? I will always say that somebody out there is praying to be in your situation. I hope you are having fun for where are you now, and what your situation is.

True Story

The other day I was walking with friend of mine and she was telling me stories about how stressful she is now that she became pregnant, and how stressful it is to move out to a different house, change the country and stuff like that.

I was like this is stressful to you? How come?! I was thinking this is the ultimate success for me. To have a guy, baby is on the way, planning future… But no!

The very next thing she said to me that many people admire me. Admire me?!?! Who am I to be admired to? I am just an ordinary girl, living by herself, doing her own stuff, going out here and there. There is nothing special in my life.

But it”s wasn”t for her. She admired me that she doesn”t have that freedom that I have right now, she doesn”t have that free will that I have. That was like, woow!

Can you see now that we see success differently?

Emotional Scale

There is something called Emotional Scale believe me or not. 😀 There are many emotions that we experienced until now, or will experience. The problem that we face, is because we stay for too long at one, and that is why we feel stuck.

You need to have a drive, you need to want feel better about yourself no matter what. You are now in the bubble and you feel comfy, because you are lazy to do something about yourself, your life. Isn”t that true!?

It is scary to reach out to a person and ask how, buy that book, because what will my spouse think. Scary to invest that money!

Everything is scary and uncertain, but guess what, we are going to do it anyway, because we have extreme ownership about our lives, extreme.

The most important thing

The quality of your life is the quality of the questions you are asking yourself. In this blog post I talk about the Two Questions You Need To Ask Yourself Daily

If you do this everyday, I promise you, you and your life will shift yesterday. Like you can change your past. hehe Not quite literally, but you get the point.

Everyday, ask yourself: “How do I really feel?” and “How can I make it better?”

Check maybe you are focused only on you

Faith plays huge part

We don’t have a faith in ourselves, that is why we self-pity ourselves, and we don’t believe in God.

Saying that you believe in something and then worrying, self pitying yourself is not a faith. It is contradictory. That is not a real faith.

Everything is interconnected in life.

Ask yourself: “In comparing to what?”

In comparing to not to have your parents alive. Have somebody to sleep with, but you don’t love him or her anymore?

In comparing to what?

There can always be worse. Always! We complain because we think the world is spinning around us, we miss to see that you are not the only individual that is going through tough times.

You are the world yourself, they are the worlds themselves. It is selfish to think you are only one who is in unwanted situation.

Remember this: ” If you feel bad, check maybe you are only focused on you.” And that is so true. We often times can”t see far from us, but there are another world. The are the people that need attention too.

A lesson

I watched video on Youtube from the Coach Corey Wayne, it is here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X3jSBRR6Gos.

He was basically saying that he knows the people who has some physical disabilities, but they decided to make the most out of their lives, see the good in that are they disabled to. Isn”t that fascinating?!

Like how dare ara you saying that you are in unwanted or negative situations?! Look around you! There are the people that sleep under the bridges. Husbands manipulate their wives. Moms have a sick kids. Who are you to think only about you?

You are the world. We are all worlds. Take extreme ownership about your life and keep moving forward, towards the better future.

Here is the video that I made also:

 

You are going to feel like imbecile

After studying and researching all those people that they were disabled and in great poverty, but now succeeded, they are happy and they live their lives to the fullest, looking at yourself and your life, you are going to feel like imbecile.

Why we feel sorry for ourselves now and create same situations all over in our head, but instead, look honestly for where we are now, accept that, and then move on, create a better tomorrow? Why?

We don”t believe in God

I am not saying that you should believe in a God, and that God exists, but I am saying that you don”t have a faith in belief in life, in you, the creator that created you for some reason and purpose. We don”t believe in some greater power, and yet we don”t believe in ourselves.

What do you think? How to stop self-pity and why do we self pity ourselves? Are you pitying yourself? How that feels like? Is it uplifting, motivating, or energy draining? What made us think we are not good enough? There is something wrong with ourselves our lives?

“No more excuses. No more self-sabotage. No more self-pity. No more comparing yourself to others. Time to step up. Take action right now and start living your life with purpose.⁠”
― Anthon St. Maarten